Dear Seeker of Success,
One of the major differences between Speed Seduction® and the other so-called “systems” out there is how much time I spend teaching you guys about how society’s programming keeps you away from the success with women that you truly want.
Recently I was doing my an office hours call for the Speed Seduction® Elite Mastermind program.
The guy who had called in to my cell phone to talk to me was telling me that he had met a girl at a wedding with whom he seemed to “hit it off”.
He told me that he had been texting with her back and forth for “the past week” and then she suddenly stopped returning his texts and he could not get a hold of her.
He wanted to know how to get her to respond to him and text him back, at which point I said, “has it ever occurred to you that your entire model of success with women sucks donkey dick?”
(BTW, “suck donkey dick” is a scientific and clinical term in the self-help industry that means, “stupid, self-defeating, and incorrect”).
Here’s what I mean: his model of success with women was:
- You meet her and chat her up.
- You get some kind of contact number.
- You attempt to make contact with her again.
- You get her on the phone, make plans
- You hang out with her another time.
- You lunge at her and try to get her to make out with you and fuck you.
Now listen: that whole model sucks. It just doesn’t work. Yet that is what presented to us guys by popular media-movies, tv, etc-as what we should be doing.
Here is what I find really interesting: it never even occurred to this guy that he could have used Speed Seduction® to so capture and lead this woman’s imagination and emotions that…..
…She Would Have Banged Him At That Wedding
In Some Closet Or Back Room, Or Gone Home
With Him That Very Same Day, Right Away!!
Look: my larger point beyond this guy and his situation is how our thinking as men when it comes to attracting women is so programmed, we usually don’t even see it. We just assume that is the way things work.
The aspect of Speed Seduction® that teaches you to wake up to your useless programming and to choose something better is not a footnote to the Speed Seduction® technology.
It’s a major, core part of it.
It’s a major part of my job as a teacher to show you how your own habitual ways of thinking have been getting in your way and to point out a better(and pinker and wetter) way to do things with the ladies.
Peace, piece and remember:
Free Your Mind And Her Ass Will Follow!
RJ
P.S. Seriously guys, the “dating game” is the high fructose corn-syrup of getting laid. It’s in everything in our popular culture and it causes great hidden damage.
If you want the real goods that deliver the pink without bullying, begging, buying or BS, booze, or biceps, go here.
I agree with you Ross. Traditional dating is for AFCs. Simply use Speed Seduction and you'll get the real results you want.
dating in general sucks balls its plain n simple see the signals around you n go for it
Yes, more about that. Anything to connect what
makes sense in seminar with reality in the world. But there is no “they”. And I’m still not getting laid.
I know a guy that creates attraction, makes her invest and builds sexual tension. The kind of guy this student want(ed) to be. Actually this friend of mine is also handsome, dainty and quite successful in other areas… Cool? I don’t think so: he is the bitch of the girls he seduces. Simply he is effective at begging and he believes he can seduce women.
That’s playing with the rules that she likes and someone else invented.
Seducing is writing your own rules and let her enjoy them with you…
Upfront and forthrigh.
Ross, its a common belief that going to night clubs has certain unspoken age restrictions. Whats your opinion of someone say in their 40′ or 50’s going into a club that is mostly early 20 somethings? At some point, does one have to capitulate and say “yeah I got game but not enough to overcome the fact that I am old enough to be everyone’s father in here, and look it too.”‘ What is your opinion on this?
Being older isn’t a thing “to overcome”, it’s an advantage and it’s sexy. They will tell “you could be my father” when they feel horny and want to bang you but they know their friend would be jealous… Women lie and manipulate by default to get advantages. Their body is weaker and developed those skills for thousand of years…. Wake up son!
Serious question here, why aren’t the women following the social programming seen on popular media?? Are only men vulnerable to this social programming??
1. She meets and chats with you.
2. She gives you her number.
3. You both make plans to meet up.
4. She hangs out with you again.
5. She gets lunged at and the sex begins.
When is the last time you saw an attractive woman approach a guy? Besides, if you’re an attractive girl those steps will definitely get you laid. It just doesn’t work the other way around… mostly
I think some women do buy into and follow the programming too but it relies on their passivity for the most part and screws them over in a different way because of it.
1. Wait for a guy to chat her up.
2. Wait for him to get some kind of contact number.
3. Wait for him to make contact with her again.
4. Wait for him to make plans
5. Wait for him to lunge at her and try to get her to make out and fuck.
6. Wait for him to call again.
7. Keep waiting.
Yep I totally agree Ross the whole dating process (sucks) its like the process of elimination is your best, lowest common denominator – no brainer…. its too much of a hassle if it happens then cool.
What I’d like to know is (because woman are so direct – not) wether I’m heading in the right direction so in my mind I tick off the check list as I go e.g she says, this or that happens & I can recognise the change & move up to hers/my place stage.
Dating is like trying to fuck a woman without admitting it to her until the last minute. LAME and CREEPY. She stopped texting because it had been a week and the guy hadn’t fucked her yet.
PS. Love the high fructose corn-syrup, dating analogy!