Dear Seeker of Success,
In designing and preparing the New Code, I foraged through stacks and stacks of notes and things I’ve been writing to myself.
Some elements of this I’ve shared already; but there are five elements of seduction self-mastery that will boost your girl-getting game right away.
What is it that enables us to move from an area of life where we’ve had a lot of challenge and difficulty…
…into real pleasure, real power, and real effectiveness – not only in what we do in the world with others, but a sense of deep enjoyment and fulfillment on the inside as we’re moving through the steps?
Seduction Self-Mastery Element #1:
The Ability To Define The Meaning
Of What You’re Doing
If, for you, the meaning of going out and meeting women is you have to desperately prove to yourself that you can finally get women to like you, that’s going to control everything.
It’s going to control (usually in a bad way) how you interpret
- her responses,
- your body language,
- the way in which you speak,
- your voice quality, and
- what you can get access to.
Listen: The ability to find, define, create and construct the meanings that are in touch with reality is very powerful.
You don’t want to say the meaning is that, “When I pick up this one girl, every vagina in the world will open to me and the space aliens will come and bestow me with riches.”
Defining a meaning that fits within consensus reality at the same time, opens up pathways for possibilities.
It’s a very powerful skill at self-mastery.
(Element #2 is right here.)
Share your thoughts on Element #1 in the comments below. I read all, and reply to most.
Peace,
RJ
P.S. Just imagine that: showing up with a whole new set of algorithms that I’ve sussed out for you, and having them run on autopilot, including any “de-bugging” you need as you progress.
That’s the New Code.
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