Dear Seeker of Success,
Last time, we explored the power of liberation languaging – changing your language to change the future.
This takes us to the fifth (and final) Seduction Self-Mastery element I will share here: depotentiating and stopping the ruminating and reprogramming of mistakes with women.
Depotentiating – reducing the effect of something
Ruminating – thinking deeply about something
Reprogramming – programming a computer or something likened to one (think: the human brain) again or differently
This is part and parcel with extraction confidence and having a good relationship with doubt, but too many guys dwell on mistakes instead.
They ask themselves over and over,
“Why Did I Blow It With
This Or That Woman?”
The self-flagellation involved isn’t even the worst part.
What makes this question truly bad for you is this: by dwelling on these mistakes, you’re reprogramming them back in – and programming the brain to repeat these mistakes when you’re out in the world.
(This is why “history repeats itself.”)
Yes, take a moment to reflect on what went wrong, so you continuously improve. And in the same moment, reflect on what you did RIGHT, so (again) you continuously improve.
Then get back out there.
Stop the ruminating, rehearsing and reprogramming of mistakes, and reclaim your power.
Peace,
RJ
P.S. Just imagine: showing up with a whole new set of “algorithms” that I’ve sussed out for you, and having them run on autopilot, including any “de-bugging” you need as you progress.
You will discover this when you join us (right now) in stepping up to the plate.
Hi, Ross
i recently finnished a home study course
and i have one little question about your patterns
which ones work best to seduct a women by mail or in a chat?
can you please give me advice about that?
many thanks in advance
Heinz
by the way do you have some seminars in Germany in near future?
@Heinz
I cover a lot of that here and here.
You may also want to get your hands on Hayley Quinn’s courses which include a fantastic e-book on how to seduce women using text messaging. Since apps like Kik are a similar environment, this could help too.
On your seminar question, we’re not positive when I will be in Europe next. I have some public speaking engagements and planned TV appearances for this autumn so I’m not sure if I’ll even get out of Los Angeles till next year!