Dear Seeker of Success,
In my direct teaching work with students, a question that frequently comes up is from a smart guy who wonders if he let a “sure thing” just walk away.
He’ll encounter a smoking-hot, sweet-smelling hottie, some things will happen like snuggling, making out, etc.
He knows he could probably score a home run if he took his best swing at bat, but for whatever reason, he walks.
This thought-provoking e-mail is a case in point:
Ross, I’m wondering if I missed an opportunity to get laid!
I was flying home from Las Vegas. Normally when I fly I like to read a book, take a nap, and be alone, but my seatmate, Felicia, was really cute and open. She’s from Phoenix and married. I ran some patterns and did some anchoring by touching her arm and face, which she seemed to enjoy.
After while she wanted to nap. She tried to get comfortable but kept stirring. So I nudged her and said “Felicia….” as I lifted up the arm rest and moved her close so she could cuddle with me while she napped. I held her close and enjoyed her perfume and her warm body next to me.
After the flight, before I left her at baggage claim, I thanked her for the best plane ride EVER, hugged and kissed her, and handed her my card and said “If I can ever be of service you….be well, Felicia” and walked away from her without another word. Part of it was because her in-laws were picking her up and I didn’t want a scene, but I enjoyed the ability to Sarge, then walk away from a scenario that I know isn’t worth my time.
I wanted to leave her with the memory of the plane ride and let HER wonder about ME, knowing she holds the key to me if she chooses to turn it. On the other hand, I am wondering if I missed out and I should have “gone for it” anyway. Did I let it walk away?
You’re right – you won’t hear from her again – but that’s not the point.
You were able to Sarge and have an enjoyable experience with a sweet-smelling hottie who was open and willing.
Aaaaannd….you’re also right in that you didn’t get laid.
Sounds like you didn’t try.
And if she’s “petting the kitty” thinking about you and the plane ride now, that’s not the same as you doing it for her.
But I’ll wager it felt good having her snuggling up to you, didn’t it?
I bet every guy on the airplane who saw you
wished he was a “stud” like you.
Remember: when you practice Speed Seduction® in your pursuit of the women you desire, it’s not about succeeding with the woman you are Sarging on right now. It’s about honing and mastering your skills to claim your results on your next 10 Sarges.
If you ask me, you should have kissed her and made out with her, but you didn’t.
This experience prepared you for next time this happens – and in your pursuit of girl-getting mastery, it WILL.
In other words, even though you didn’t
join the Mile-High Club this time, your likelihood
of getting laid just went WAAAAAAAY up!
So again, you didn’t poke her, but you know THIS plane ride sure beat a poke in the eye!
Peace,
RJ
P.S. With what I teach you throughout the Rapid And Total Success With Women System, you’ll remain in control as the effortless seduction architect of every interaction and situation who claims his results and gets the women he wants.
yeah could have made out , but the in laws are there to pick up, then what..get a number email? Had a similar experience with women who was separated but her husband was picking her up at the airport, I mean what do you do , let propose a solution?
That’s why he gave her his business card and left it in her court. Although that is NOT what I teach, in THIS SITUATION with THIS WOMAN it actually empowered him, to be strong enough to hand her the key with no expectation she’d actually use it. NONE of his perception of self-worth was invested in whether she ever reached out.
This is great info Sir. I remember while reading this, I let an office hottie walk away even after she wrap her arm unto my arm inside the photocopier room with people around, insinuate me to go out but I didn’t, coz I worried she had a boyfriend at the time.
But I don’t want to sound like stupid right now. What the guy supposed to do? Have sex while in the airplane? (I read some people do it in the airplane). Coz I don’t think he can have sex right after the land the airport.
I appreciate if you can enlighten me on this. Your teachings are very gold.
The point was, he could have nailed her after the plane landed, but he decided the very likely drama of her being married and her in-laws being at the airport to pick her up wasn’t worth it.
He was grateful for the opportunity to practice the skills.
Remember: interested in the woman, INVESTED in mastering the skills.
“t’s not about succeeding with the woman you are Sarging on right now. It’s about honing and mastering your skills to claim your results on your next 10 Sarges.”
Word, totally true
Word!