Dear Seeker of Success,
In yesterday’s post, I explained two different types of confidence with women – and how getting them un-confused can pave your road to meeting, attracting. and enjoying women.
Now, let me share with you the absolutely whacked-out drill I gave my student to do, which totally did the trick.
First, let’s hear from him:
Ross,
Thank you for the phone consultation, the exercise that you gave me to do is a magic thing. I needed more acceptance confidence and you told me to make four squares divided by a cross and write this on the cement in my barn or somewhere I would read it aloud everyday for 7 days.
The first was “I don’t know what’s going to happen”, the second “Lets go find out” the third “The least that will happen is I will learn something” and the fourth was “And have some fun”.
Now before I get out of my house I say this aloud and women just seem to pop up everywhere I go. They really can’t tell the difference between acceptance confidence and performance confidence, lucky me. I even had a few women walk up to me now with this new magical exercise.
Thanks,
Wayne “X”
Actually what I had this guy do was even whackier, nuts, and far-out than what he described in his email!
I had this guy draw four squares on the ground, then stand in each square that he drew on the ground.
In each square, I had him write one of these four sentences he mentions.
Then, I told him as he spoke each piece of writing out loud, to step from one square to the next.
Now, if I told you that doing this would totally erase your fear of approaching women and that women would even sense your new vibe and approach YOU, you would probably, based on your past way of thinking…
… Call Me A Goddamn Lunatic!
And I wouldn’t blame you.
You probably would never have guessed, or even imagined, at such a thing as a way out of your approach anxiety and “shyness” because trying to figure out these things as a left-brained, cognitive understanding usually doesn’t work.
You see…
…It’s The Left Brained Thinking That’s
Probably Keeping You Stuck
IN THE FIRST PLACE!
As I have said many times: it is the stuff that seems the strangest, the weirdest, the most bizarre and out there, the most far off from what you would have even thought to do that often contains the MOST concentrated, pure leverage for rapid, massive change.
Bottom line: do the weird. It works.
Peace,
RJ
P.S. Speed Seduction® is YOUR key to power, success and choice with women, without bullying , buying, begging, BS, booze, or biceps.