Dear Seeker of Success,
Everybody has their own “Sarging zone.”
For some guys, it’s the bars and clubs.
Others lay their mack down at the bookstores and coffee shops.
I have students who go grocery shopping every day, buying just what they need to make dinner that day, because it keeps them in play daily in a place where women of all levels of hotness can be found, pretty much any time.
Others, I kid you not, religiously attend services every week because there are a lot of women there.
(Something can be said for that: you know from the jump you have something in common that’s extremely important to both of you!)
So how annoying is it when you’re at a bar or club and you just want to hang out and enjoy a couple drinks, and your buddies keep razzing you because you just don’t want to walk right up to that hottie up at the bar, right this second.
Even worse when they say “Awww come on, show us some of that Speed Seduction® stuff you talk about. Show us how you ‘Sarge’ will ya?”
While one of the goals of Speed Seduction® is the ability to effortlessly and fearlessly meet women anytime, anyhow, anywhere,
THAT DOESN’T MEAN YOU HAVE TO,
EVERY SINGLE FREAKING TIME.
Maybe you’re at the bookstore because you want to buy a f@@king BOOK.
Maybe you have a headache, or you just found out your investments bellied-up and you’re just not thinking about getting laid RIGHT THAT SECOND.
So, why, when you’re in a club, do you HAVE to do this or that?
Is there some rule that forces you to turn into a hound-dog just because you saw it in some movie?
Look: at 58 years of age, I DON’T GO TO CLUBS. It’s just not my thing.
I CAN and DO easily pick-up women in almost any other environment.
As in VERY easily.
So if someone’s giving you a hard time because, on a finger-snap, you’re not racing up to every single woman like a Pavlovian dog, first of all have compassion.
Could be your friends mean well, but they aren’t getting any and are looking to live vicariously through you.
Part of the power of Speed Seduction® is the power of CHOICE.
You CHOOSE what you want to do at this very moment.
Maybe in a moment from now, you’ll see the woman you CHOOSE to approach and claim your results with.
That, to me, beats a “friendly jab”… or a poke in the eye!
Peace,
RJ
P.S. Since getting in control of your life and meeting, flirting, dating, seducing, and sleeping with sexy, beautiful women, fast and easy, when YOU want to is something that’s of interest to you, click here and start taking charge of YOUR game, starting now!
Church on Easter Sunday is so sexy, everybody is dressed to the nines and ready to get “hit-on”. And the best part is, you don’t wake up the next day with a hangover. Like ——- Last Saterday, us four guys are playing pool at the pub. In walks the college crowd. The girls were really turning my buddies heads. But these girls do the nose-in-air thing, unless your jock. That’s not too good for a guy’s moral. So, I tell them, hey, most of these girls are shy, just totally ignore them. If they get in your way, walk over them like they didn’t exist. Sure enough, within the hour, the action had moved to our table. Jokes, teasing, beer on the floor, their hands all over us. Look, a girl has the right to approach me, but if I’m shooting the eight-ball, she gets none of my attention. And when it’s her turn to play, I’m going to break and run-out. She doesn’t even get to shot. Sorry hun. That’s life.
haha hadn’t thought about church being a sarge option…Mhmmm..
I am always trying to find awesome club post. Thank you for taking the time to write this post. It’s exactly what I was looking for. Truly awesome post.
Sarging at church you learn something new everyday…as for sarging at the grocery store it’s the best thing ever, you can still meet women without having to take time out of your schedule. Clubs SUCK because women only go there to get hit on and get free drinks.