Dear Speed Seduction® Students and Fans,
I’ve seen “online dating” evolve from being what guys didn’t admit to using to meet that latest “hot babe,” to being so common that you can barely watch a half hour of TV without seeing a commercial for one of the major online-dating websites.
I know a number of guys who have had success Sarging online. A few told me how they applied my girl-getting techniques to the online scene and used them to screen out the time-wasters, pic-collectors, and c#%k-teasers and score with the “prime hotties” on the “dating sites.” I’ve said before, good on them for making it work and I wish them continued success.
More common, however, is what I received two days ago from one of my students who has, up until now, insisted that the chatroom is just as good as the coffee shop, bookstore, grocery store, pottery class, running club, rock star’s fan club meetings, local networking group, or favourite club for meeting hot women:
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You know Ross, I’ve had some success finding women online, meeting them in person. I’ve gotten laid a couple times and even dated a few. Good times. More often, though, chicks on the dating sites talk a big game about being ready to “go for it” until it comes time to take things to a higher level.
Right at the point where things are ready to progress from a little fun online chat to “things actually happening” is where many women online suddenly change. They’ll make up bulls#%t excuses. They’ll suddenly change from lively chats that could go on all night if I would have let them, to all they say in the chat window is “hi” “ok” “cool” and “bye” without any smiley faces or “lol” or “roflmao” like before. They’ll disappear without a trace. In about 1 out of 5 cases, they suddenly pick some stupid fight, blame it on me, and call me an a$@hole from behind their keyboard.
Even after we meet in person, most of the time it doesn’t take long before they retreat back behind their computer or texting on their Crackberry or i(Don’t-Actually-Talk-On-The)Phone.
Frankly, I’d rather occasionally have some stuck-up chick shoot me down in public while her gal-pals laugh at me than deal with online nonsense anymore. I’ve canceled my online dating profiles and deleted everyone off my IM buddy list who isn’t an actual “real life” friend. For a couple days it was weird with my IM being silent and no “she just winked at you” notifications, but I don’t miss it now. I’m done with work for the day and now I’m off to my regular club to see who’s hanging out tonight.
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I’ve been working closely with this student for two years now. He was playing the online game smart, using it as a means to get her quickly to the next phase (the phone, then an in-person meet). He wasn’t using the internet as a crutch or excuse to avoid taking bold in-person seduction moves himself.
Remember: the anonymity of the internet allows people to pretend without having to face the music.
Plus, you don’t know who she really is, no matter how good she is at typing “just the right things” in the “naughty box.” All those “pics” she sends you that show you how cute and yummy she looks… how do you know they’re really HER? And if they are her, how do you know they aren’t 10 years old, from before she went to hell in a handbasket?
In this 24/7, hectic, overwhelm world where sometimes it’s hard to get out of the office enough to Sarge, the chat rooms and dating sites let you interact with women without having to lift more than a finger or two. It’s tempting and easy – I appreciate this.
But look: save the online chat stuff for women you’ve already been sleeping with for a while, as a way of keeping them tittilated when they’re home alone waiting for you to get back from that 3-day seminar you’re away at and show them even more hot, steaming adventure in person.
All around you, OFFLINE, the women are waiting – what, my friend, are you waiting FOR?
Peace, peace, and here’s LOOKING at her IN PERSON,
RJ
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