Dear Speed Seduction® Students and Fans,
I’m going to be sick all week, and Monday’s not even over yet here in Los Angeles.
According to the 2013 Valentine’s Day Consumer Intentions and Actions Survey conducted for the National Retail Federation by BIGinsight, retail sales in the USA for Valentine’s Day in 2013 are expected to top $18,600,000,000.
That’s EIGHTEEN FUCKING BILLION, SIX HUNDRED GODDAMN MILLION DOLLARS. (1)
What makes me sick is that this was the same amount projected for 2011(2) – or about 3 or 4 fiscal cliffs ago, or whatever. So with all this “economic downturn” men are still getting bent over.
And… the dreck gets thicker….
Check out where just PART of that money is going….
- $1.6 billion for candy
- $1.9 billion for flowers
- $4.4 billion on diamonds, gold and silver jewelry
- $1.6 billion in clothing
- $1.5 billion in gift cards
It’s a holiday where you, the guy, get to lean hard on 2 of the 6 B’s that most guys are taught to use to have “success” with women.
Just to review, these are:
- Bullying
- Begging
- Buying
- BS
- Booze
- Biceps
Even Smart Women Know Better
Come to think of it, Valentine’s Day actually involves not only Buying and Begging, but BS as well. See, even many women KNOW it is a BS made up holiday. They know, on some level, you KNOW you are being coerced when you pelt them flowers, gifts, etc.
(At least I fucking HOPE you know you are being coerced. God, Sergeant J. Cat Ross, Ceiling Cat, all the Norse deities and Pippi Longstocking help you if you DON’T know this and actually believe you are spontaneously expressing your “true feelings”, aka, desperation).
Now look; I’m NOT against being genuinely giving and being generous, IF that is what you do as an expression of who you are. NOT because you are trying to buy a woman’s gold-plated poontang.
(Look at her box…LOL)
But barfing up the cash to give to restaurants, jewelers, flowershops, etc because some dumb-ass made-up holiday was created TO MAKE YOU DO SO is just f@@king putting no value on what you inherently can offer as a man.
And a Speed Seducer® NEVER needs to spend a dime, to show a woman a fantastic experience of having feelings she’s always longed to feel.
Let’s Do This Thing
Throw that bouquet in the trash. Burn that sappy card. CANCEL THE DAMN FANCY DINNER RESERVATION.
And join me on Thursday, February 14 for my “Give V-Day The Finger And Claim True Vaginal Victory In 2013!” Live Video Broadcast.
I’ll show you how you can totally destroy all your stuck, limiting, fucked up programming and LIVE LIKE A FREE FUCKING MAN:
Peace and piece,
PR (aka RJ)
P.S. Even if you DO have a “date” for National Desperate Supplicator’s Day, attend the broadcast anyway and implement what I share when you see her. Perhaps that box of chocolates won’t get you the 69 with your wine and dine, but what you’ll learn will increase your chances of savoring her candy box.
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(1) 2013 Statistic per NRF.com
(2) 2011 Statistic per DailyFinance.com
Hey, can we get a list of all those men? All I’d have to do is write one letter and I’d have enough money to support 3 generations.
how can I use this Bs Day? my lazy unconscious found it
“you know why St. V. is the day of…(gesture me and her) ok, have you ever feel an incredible connection…”
ps. try this book: Mosler – Seven Deadly Innocent Frauds of Economic Policy
I agree, but this makes Valentine’s Day even more depressing. Keep up the good work.
Showed this email to my brother – love it, coulden’t stop laughing, he recounts one time when you were being interviewed by Dr Phil I was busting my guts !
Will you hold an event on “Steak and Blowjob day” 14 march too? 😉
@Magnus
What’s March 14?
It’s a day made up by guys in response to V-day. It has been marketed in recent years as:
“Steak & Blowjob Day”
Does the rounds on the social media, but not sure it’s had wider commercial acceptance as yet!
As a woman I feel what you have said in the article only deals with a woman who is not interested in the man who is sending cards, flowers…etc
Valentines day is a celebration of romance. Everyone wants to feel loved and cherished..its part of the human condition.
Just because it can be viewed as “commercial” doesnt mean it can be an opportunity for fun, romance and deepening your connection with another.
If you are a man dating a woman,believe me, the woman would like the day acknowledged. It does not have to be in the traditional expectations of flowers, chocolate or dinner, but to let the day go unacknowledged sends her the message that you are not a romantic character.
If it a woman you dont know that well, or havent even gone on a date with yet, then sending flowers or chocolates out of the blue can come across as creepy. Instead, call her and ask if she has plans for Valentines. Is she doesn’t, tell her you would love to spend the night with her. If she says yes, ask her what she would like to do. Then go do it!
@Deborah,
I tell my guys, never take advice from a woman about what women want. Only watch what women actually RESPOND to.
If a woman is so insecure that she needs the external validation of an artificially created “holiday” then she’s nothing but a cum-dumpster to me.
RJ
Thank you for your response Paul. I agree that what a woman says, needs to be backed up by action. This can be said about both males and females and comes down to congruence.
Whether male or female, living your life in alignment to your values, beliefs, vision, mission, dreams, desires and goals is about knowing who you are and where you are going.
You will know when you meet a congruent person because their energy, passion, and confidence will shine. Their words and actions are a genuine match for each other. They are the people that ‘talk the talk and walk the walk’. They are the type of person others inspire to be,the person you’d love as a friend. Ultimately, they are the type of intimate partners we desire in our lives. It’s what draws us to certain people and situations. And repels us from others.
Deborah
I’m not sure you fully understood what RJ means.
What a women says is a representation of what she expects on the social level of her psyche.
What she responds to is representative of a deeper level, her primal desires, her fantasies, and an expression of her sexuality.
Now, yes, on a rare occasion some women don’t respond to social conditioning & stimuli, & their inner psyche & social level are aligned.
What you are describing is somewhat different. It is however, a good quality nonetheless, and something I look for in women.