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    Tom December 28, 2010, 2:22 pm

    I think your last bullet point is the most important Ross. With continued investment in mastering the skills you become more aware, over time,of many of the common issues that may arise when an hb is resistant to your approach and everything else will become second nature. You become the master seducer!

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    Zarathud January 3, 2011, 5:20 pm

    I think the second to last point is also very important to keep in mind. Who cares if she’s a 10 if she’s a dud in bed. Better a 7 who’s “really” hot…(or even a 5, oh hell I don’t remember that far back, don’t listen to me)

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    Zarathud January 3, 2011, 6:13 pm

    Ross,

    After thinking about my previous post, I do have a serious comment/question about self-analysis in a wider context than the sarge. I’ve done *A LOT* of personal development over the past 7 years. Seduction has only made legitimate priority in the past year and I’ve only gotten laid once (in the last year that is) and that with an old interest via FB.

    So part of me is saying, “I didn’t get laid, why is he still getting paid.”

    But I have seen tremendous improvements and am still using Inner Game material on a regular basis. What I’m doing right at this point is staying calm, holding my space and acting respectfully (among other things).

    My question/comment has to do with self-analysis. A major turning point for me was working with Energized Hypnosis (Dr Hyatt) 6 years ago and working through a self analysis survey (which I’ve repeated several times) that showed very clearly that the areas I was focusing on were not really productive for me at that point.

    I guess Nail Your Inner Game does cover a lot of that ground, but listening to Riker’s Technical Manual, I’m thinking that relying on random opportunities, however more plentiful they are becoming after working with the energy and belief material in the power pack, is not giving me enough context to PRACTICE.

    I mean with a walk up, there are women out there, not shying away from me, but they aren’t exactly making it easy and there’s only so much I can do to get myself warmed up ahead of time without psyching myself out. I’m just not moving fast enough in the situations.

    Well I guess there isn’t a specific question in there, but any comment would be welcome.

    Zara

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    The Ace January 4, 2011, 1:08 pm

    The last quote is everything, is the key one. “interested in girls, invested in mastering the skills”. That´s how we men should think about seduction.
    And as you say Ross, keep the core intact, control where energy goes so nothing affects you.
    Thanks for your advices,
    cheers

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