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    adam132 November 8, 2009, 2:14 pm

    Hi Ross,

    The link to rjcoaching doesn't work.

    -Adam

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    Robert Waterman November 8, 2009, 2:58 pm

    Hi Ross, the video to the link didn't work…But I tool the time to listen to the sound. Have you ever seen something that caught your eye, only to have it get lost in the background? But a sound stays with you and connects to “that place” inside your mind… yes that one. the one where everything just makes sense. and you know the oblivious choice is very clear. for me there is nothing better. Thanks and keep posting great stuff.

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    rushdown November 8, 2009, 3:04 pm

    Nice pattern.

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    rushdown November 8, 2009, 3:05 pm

    I don't see or hear anything. All I see is a black horizontal line. I'm using Internet Explorer if the browser matters by the way.

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    SC November 8, 2009, 3:10 pm

    2009 and still using Quicktime?

    Flash would be appreciated by most I reckon, considering it is the standard.

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    Tom Graves November 8, 2009, 3:26 pm

    I love RJ's stuff. I started out as a socially rejected semi-autistic loser, but I had one thing going for me. I am very smart. I started by figuring out how humans interact. It was hit or miss, with most of it being miss. I made friends with a lot of women in order to figure out how they think. Somewhere in there, things started to click for me. I would find myself with women by just talking to them in various social settings without the burden of dates. I really didn't deeply analyze about how I was doing it, it just seemed to happen. Years later, a student told me that I sounded like I had read some books by one of the online PUAs. I checked into it and became fascinated by RJ’s teachings because they explained what I had been doing when I was younger and much more. One can only imagine what I would have been able to accomplish if I had had access to his teachings when I was single.

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    HARRY November 8, 2009, 4:05 pm

    Nothing came thru–please try again

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    Brokenvai November 8, 2009, 4:15 pm

    I tossed around a couple of ideas, like if I were to Speed Seduce the video. But I decided I would come from the opposite angle. Here it goes:

    Have you ever felt burning desire for adventure with someone? (point to yourself) Like, maybe as you were there, looking at them, listening deeply and intently, you began to feel a warmth…coming within you? And as that person continued to speak…word by word… this inner warmth would gradually grow warmer…and warmer, drawing you closer…and closer to the deep, rich sound of their voice, until you began to feel it take over you? It was as if you could feel them take you on a ride, and you felt all of the world just disappear…around this person (point to yourself) and you? And the more you focused on them and their presence, the more you felt this cord of light (gesture from your solar plexus to hers, then gesture pulling the cord towards you)…pull you on an exciting adventure that you could dream about again and again? And as that cord began to glow, with the warmth of that burning desire, maybe you were even able to imagine a time in your future (gesture to your left or right), say 6 months from now, still feeling that sense of adventure, and looking back on today (point back to you) as having been the start of it?

    Ross, you've been a great inspiration for me, for a very long time. Thank you.

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    Ross Jeffries November 8, 2009, 7:01 pm

    Try it now…I just uploaded it to Viddler..

    RJ

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    Gareth November 8, 2009, 9:55 pm

    What's the benefit to a woman for her to enter a meta state? Can it be observed and is it possible to be able to take advantage of the time she's in this state?

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    PASSION8MAN November 9, 2009, 4:40 am

    Hey ross

    I just finished watching the first of the videos

    I love the way the information is presented when I can see
    and hear you talking and also read along it really helps
    to internalize the learnings

    The quality of the video is amazing

    cant wait to get my claws into the new program

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    eskimor November 9, 2009, 4:43 am

    Hey Ross, as you have always said – one just has to go out and try it. The confidence and results will come. I am almost spooked by the results,as the words are starting to just happen without thinking. I watched your review, and I as usual, I always pick up something that I think would have been fun to try when…
    There will always be a next time if you keep at it.

    Thanks..

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    surrender99 November 9, 2009, 8:47 am

    Subliminal languages and anchoring Really wires their minds to becum dripping wet and wanting to fu*k you !

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    Simbat November 9, 2009, 9:24 am

    Hi Ross,

    You are so damn right about the auto-pilot idea and if one would pay attention, I mean…really pay attention… to this principle, right now, they could realize that auto-pilot response is everywhere, not just in women. When we answer the phone, when we react to different situations etc. all are emphasized in patterns.
    I believe the idea of not taking a woman's response as written in stone, because of what she is felling etc. should be taken into consideration all the time your are with her, not just during the initial walk-up.
    And everyone out there that has a gf should pay attention to this type of answering because it makes a huge difference and helps in your relationship. I've heard it so many times from my girl saying something like “I'm sorry about what I said/ way I acted yesterday, but there was this think that annoyed me before”. And this way I don't get pissed or anything. Women can truly switch from a good mode to a bad one and vice-versa.
    Just understanding what is behind her auto-pilot I believe helps a lot. Before I discovered RJ's materials I had no clue these patterned answers existed,not to mention handling them or reframe them, and would get upset thinking to myself “Oh, it must be my fault for her reacting this way”. Not anymore…

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    traceywatts November 9, 2009, 9:32 am

    I was INITIALLY skeptical of your Speed Seduction Series. Then this video helped me remember why I signed up in the first place. YOU ARE SMOOTH! I read your Playboy article a few years back about a telephone message you left. I got A LOT of pussy from that message. Thanks! While going through this video, I was thinking of using a quote or two on a long-overdue target. I'm taking condoms over, this time. I'll tell you guys how it went! Go go gadget-dick!

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    eb1 November 9, 2009, 1:04 pm

    This is why Ross is THE MAN. Not only the words he uses but how they work on the deeply imbedded “operating system” of a woman's mind. Knowing how the words work has given me the confidence to use them and differentiate his knowledge from his imitators.

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    Diana November 9, 2009, 6:30 pm

    Hey Ross, I can't claim I'm hotbabe. I'm good average. And I got to know your stuff throught good male-friend last year and spend some time with studying it. I'm bi. And tried your stuff on few girls who weren't bi and managed it to get laid them xD and I also used it on some boys, and until certain point it works too, for example building fascination etc.
    I definitely need more Ross!!!!! xD

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    Ross Jeffries November 9, 2009, 6:58 pm

    Glad to know I'm helping the ladies get the…ladies? I'm working on a course for women….cumming up in Jan 2010!

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    Ross Jeffries November 9, 2009, 7:02 pm

    You are SOOO on track to win a free Best of RJ DVD/CD set.

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    69 November 9, 2009, 10:51 pm

    Hey Ross,

    Not really a comment on your video content, but thought I would just say i tried using the implied compliment on a woman in a bar and she completely lit up, smiled and basically was very happy about it (it was about her style). She then asked me to clarify the implied compliment though. She was like, so “are you saying that Im blah blah blah…” Wasn't sure what to say in response so was just like ” well, as I'm talking to you, then you do the math…” kinda of thing. She was fine with this.

    Anyway, I tried the implied compliment on another girl the next night in the same bar who I had been speaking with for about 10 minutes, something about her eyeliner/mascara, then added an observation “very luminous” straight after (it was luminous green).

    Her reaction to this was to instantly ask what my name was!

    So from now on, I think I'll be using “the implied compliment with added observation combo” more often!

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    geo-stud November 9, 2009, 11:27 pm

    As you mentioned in this video, I persuade you to create a mini-course or DVD/CD product about the inter-workings of fractionation. My skills improved exponentially once I learned to escort HBs between the “4 levels of the mind”.

    Correct fractionation time-distorts HBs. If I began talking with one 15 minutes ago, each shift makes her feel the interaction has transpired over more time, and as if we know each other a lot more. “Something about this fascination makes people feel like they want to open-up this discovery as if it was the first time.” My best results start from the frame 'what we're about to do we've done before- let's explore our first experience”.

    Fractionation also helps my earlier mastered skills work much better; stating commands in the stealth form of a question.

    “Ever notice how when I touch your forehead, a small bit of excitement goes down deeper?”
    HB: “How could you tell??”

    Well actually, my question came before her feeling. She thinks my question came afterward.

    Once you can get this started, it's a snowball rolling down hill requiring little force from me except slight direction. This may be Ross' old-school stuff, but it's fun to mix it in with the new stuff.

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    MJ November 10, 2009, 4:23 am

    hey Ross you ok,
    I love the bits about fractionation of how when you go back and bring up the same thing again like it evokes a deeper feeling inside each time you do it. Like going back and forth with the different vibes, I get that now.
    One minute being playful, then ability to lead then going back to playful again.
    I especially loved the bit about installing different beliefs into to respond differently to her reaction to you, like 'never take a woman's first reponse set it stone..' before I would just accept it and back off, but with this installed belief, I don't crumble anymore, the energy gets redirected (just like you say you do).
    And what you teach about implications and metaphors, I found you were right about them too, these tools allow you to by-pass the concious and straight into the subconcious, creating no 'friction' what-so-ever. I love the 'is the bridge out or is there just a bump in the road line.'
    Also what you talk about the patterns that activate the right side of the brain.
    What I've found most important of all is creating these beliefs for a strong inner-game and the realisation that this can be used in all areas of life and not just this, its just a tip of the ice-berg really.
    I think we live in a cruel world out there where if you don't know what to do or how to get it, you can get knocked down and beat, and that's where you teaching's come in cause I've used them/using them to be a stronger person.

    M.

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    eb1 November 10, 2009, 7:35 am

    I can hardly wait for the next video…when is it coming out?
    As a shy,hooptie driving,terribly broke and under-employed fulltime accounting student, these videos are building skills and confidence while enriching my experience with the ladies immensely.
    With Ross in your corner you won't need a nice car or money.

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    ElMondo November 11, 2009, 7:46 am

    Fractionation is an incredibly powerful idea, and it's one I have to figure out how to use. It's also something that has to be done right, or it can be dangerous. I've still got to figure this out, as I have in the past given and given, then lose out to someone who takes away.

    Truly abusive men use fractionation way beyond anything reasonable, and they keep women hurting for years. They love them one minute, then scream at them or even physically hurt them the next. They keep them off guard, alternating love and hate, and the woman never knows what sets either off. Then they feel they need to show the man that they are worth loving.

    I would never want to be abusive, but, in extremes, we can often find things that are useful when controlled and not abused. Politicians will study the worst dictators to see how they got their power. You don't have to become that person, but you can study it and discover some tools. Luckily, Ross has already discovered the tools, and all we have to do is use what he teaches.

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    Deiungo November 11, 2009, 1:33 pm

    Wouldn't it be great if teachers teached this stuff in some private schools as ordinary subject like math or geography?

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    joser November 11, 2009, 9:45 pm

    Hey Ross, you're right, the women's first response is not written in stone,
    but just because men are hardwired the opposite way (we tend to
    analyze and women tend to “feel”), we took the first response
    as the only and last word. We can see it in women's behaviour where
    their emotional states goes from depressed to almost violently
    happy in just short periods of time.

    I think they want to find the “comfort zone” between the big range
    of emotional states in order to get assured about you, and then they
    themselves can surrender to you as a man.

    In order to process the information they give you, first you should
    learn to listen, this is a big one, but few men can do that, most of
    the time because we are too much into us, but always we want the girl
    to be into us before we even want to know her name!

    Those mentalisation sentences are great, I'm gonna apply it ASAP!

    The typical “I have a boyfriend” objection! It's like her saying I'm pre-
    approved, pre-selected,and your response destroys her statement!
    Good point Ross. With her “I have a boyfriend” she's just thinking as a
    woman, because they just want to be with a man who is pre-selected also.

    It seems like you're using reverse-psychology.

    Yes, being almost direct with the right set of mind (a strong one) can do
    miracles. Like in:

    “Hey… I can't pretend I don't have arms or eyes, with someone as amazing
    as you. SO maybe we better just call it all off. Have a good one.”
    (You're not apologizing for being a man)

    Borefriend! Ha,ha,ha! That was good.

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    joser November 11, 2009, 9:50 pm

    Hey Ross, you're right, the women's first response is not written in stone,
    but just because men are hardwired the opposite way (we tend to
    analyze and women tend to “feel”), we took the first response
    as the only and last word. We can see it in women's behaviour where
    their emotional states goes from depressed to almost violently
    happy in just short periods of time.

    I think they want to find the “comfort zone” between the big range
    of emotional states in order to get assured about you, and then they
    themselves can surrender to you as a man.

    In order to process the information they give you, first you should
    learn to listen, this is a big one, but few men can do that, most of
    the time because we are too much into us, but always we want the girl
    to be into us before we even want to know her name!

    Those mentalisation sentences are great, I'm gonna apply it ASAP!

    The typical “I have a boyfriend” objection! It's like her saying I'm pre-
    approved, pre-selected,and your response destroys her statement!
    Good point Ross. With her “I have a boyfriend” she's just thinking as a
    woman, because they just want to be with a man who is pre-selected also.

    It seems like you're using reverse-psychology.

    Yes, being almost direct with the right set of mind (a strong one) can do
    miracles. Like in:

    “Hey… I can't pretend I don't have arms or eyes, with someone as amazing
    as you. SO maybe we better just call it all off. Have a good one.”
    (You're not apologizing for being a man)

    Borefriend! Ha,ha,ha! That was good.

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    mouneer soulaiman November 18, 2009, 4:08 am

    Success is just like being pregnant: everybody congragulates you,
    but nobody knows how many times you were fucked
    But with Ross Jeffries nobody knows how many times you fucked (get laid) and without effort

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    Western Bedding December 7, 2009, 9:02 pm

    great work! and what's wrong using quicktime in 2009? 😀

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    Discount Bedding Sets March 4, 2010, 2:50 am

    Very nice video there. I love the pattern. I hope they will teach this stuff on schools.

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