Dear Speed Seduction® Student,
A big part of achieving ultimate success with women you truly desire comes from understanding of the concept of “frames”; the overall guidelines through which you present everything else you do.
I truly believe that understanding how to fit all of your thoughts, actions, responses and ideas with women into the right frame…the frame of NEVER supplicating, begging or “asking”, but instead, offering challenges, structuring opportunities and eliciting/evoking processes is the single most important key to making every other aspect of your success with women at least three to four times more effective and powerful.
A student asked me this question:
> Is a frame just anything that can make people see things differently? So how do you CONTROL the frame under those circumstances?
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> Essentially, the idea is you are supposed to hold a given point of view – “I’m testing to see if I can find someone who measures up to my standards”. Sure, that makes sense. But it still doesn’t leave me feeling like I understand the whole process. It is doesn’t leave me feeling like I could create a different frame for a different circumstance.
RJ here. The frame, among other things, is the underlying, UNSPOKEN set of assumptions about WHO holds the power, WHO has what is of value, WHO must please WHOM.
Let’s chunk this down.
She says something like, “I just can’t find a guy who can treat me like a lady”.
An AFC would ask what she means and then act as she describes. She has set the frame that SHE is the prize who must be one.
We Speed Seduction® Masters turn it around, “Yeah, I know what you mean. I can’t find a lady who can move me past LUST into TRUE passion…you know…where you aren’t just feeling hot and sticky in the moment..you don’t just give all that you have…but you find things coming forth in you that you never knew were there…just waiting to be satisfied.”
You see what I mean? That’s just one example.
Peace and piece,
RJ
P.S. Want to learn how to present in a way that is much more receivable to the feminine psyche and mind…receivable in a way that just lets it slide right in…deep into the place where her wildest fantasies spring to life and action, with you? Get my Frame Control and Sexual Themes course and claim your 16+ hours of teaching on this topic now.
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RJ,
This has given me an “Aha” moment.
I have decent to good success as long as I look at a female as very short term, I’m just experimenting and playing with possibilities, or for whatever reason I don’t care much about the outcome. Yet as soon as I find a woman that strongly attracts me for a possible long-term relationship I make some AFC mistakes. Even though I can still do some things right, I’m still stepping into HER frame, and I’m working with a major handicap and an often fatal handicap to getting anything going.
So — Aha, that helps a lot.
Thanks
GOD BLESS ROSS JEFFRIES
@Bullet Chthulhu thanks you!
Why did you said this instead of “demonstrate authority in her world”? (i know there’s a little bit of authority..) sounds like you shifted her whinning into something secure, but, at the same time, sexy.
And an exceptional example….Lets not forget that.
Hi,
That comes off to me as being an essential piece toward a new direction of happiness.
Nice 1 bruvver,
@ross please don`t retire anytime soon. i still have to get training from you. i really like what you done in the Eg.
Found this because Rollo Tomassi wrote in The Rational Male, page 145, that Mystery was the first to come up with the concept of Frames/Frame Control (to his recollection). I was sure I remember RJ talking about frames in the 1999 L.A. seminar.
So, here I am, more than 10 years and 80+ vaginas later.
I’m sure than reframe is more effective than the one I’ve been using,
to the complaint, “I want a guy to treat me like a princess/lady.”
“When you start behaving as a lady I’ll treat you like one.”
@Brainbuster, I was teaching frame-control when Mystery was still pulling his pud in a Toronto pub trying to fake an American accent!