Dear Speed Seduction® Student,
A student of mine kept ending up in real-hate-shun-ships with crazy women.
On the surface, it didn’t seem hard to spot the barking mad crazy chicks. Easily screened out.
The problem, you see, was an age-old one, faced by so many smart, perceptive men throughout history and even throughout the past half hour: spotting the “closet crazies”.
Yeah. That’s tricky.
So he took a notepad and a pen and wrote down 50 qualities that he sought in women. No specific order, just wrote ’em down as they came to him.
But still a long list, which had him wondering: if he set aside the physical qualities, and focused on the “core” qualities, how careful would he need to be in choosing which qualities mattered?
For me, personally, I don’t want a list too long. And also, here is a question:
“What state of mind do you want to be in
when you make your list?”
A big part of setting goals has to do with making sure you don’t drag your old limiting beliefs and stuck emotions into framing what you are claiming.
(Oooh: I like that: “Framing What You Are Claiming.” COINED!)
So, my first challenge:
1) What frame of mind do you want to be in when you are doing this?
2) What practices can you do to make sure you are in an optimum frame of mind?
Next, I have found that it helps me to do two things:
1) Use alliteration when naming the qualities. For example: “Daring, Depth, Dimension” as a 3-cluster of qualities that have to be there.
2) I like using groups of three or four, alliteration or not. As in:
- Feet on the ground
- Head screwed on straight
- Heart wide-open to me
- Pussy dripping wet, in all ways eager to please me
Take it for a spin and see how it works out for you.
Peace and piece,
PR (aka RJ)
P.S. Through Magick and Meditation, you can shake off the shackles of your past programming and choose how you feel, what you believe, and how to respond to the events of your life.
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And stay away from girls called Cynthia, Cindy, cindy-loo, cinderella and any other alliterative iteration.
I don’t know why this is, I have just found they are all barking mad.
aka,
Too late, I already put a trademark on “Framing What You Are Claiming.”(t)
Fifty, wow, 50 qualities, and Lehrer says you can only keep 4 data streams in your head st the same time. I’m OVERWHELMED PR. Thankfully I’m working on working memory and should be able to juggle say 9 or 10 of these in a couple months. I’m especially looking into numbers 9 and 10 of course.
Thanks Mr Ross i will try and have my own list.
This is really effective, just the act of taking some time out and really deciding what you want. Like for me, it was respect. That means returning calls if she couldn’t pick them up. And once I had this decided I encountered a chick who didnt return my call and I asked myself, “Is this the kind of person I really want to be with?” and the answer was no. I had no problem moving on and stop calling her and as a result I met and banged another lovelier woman. Whereas in the past when I hadnt decided what I really wanted, any girl not returning calls became an issue and I would feel pressured to make things work with her. But now I have absolutely no problem moving on when someone acts less than loving and respectful.