Dear Seeker of Success,
Time and time I’ve heard it again, from students and other smart guys who approach women with a specific sequence of actions or memorized pick-up lines.
There’s a reason why I hear it.
One (or more) of three things will usually happen(and many times one leads from the other):
a) She’ll pick up on it and give back non-receptive vibes,
b) He’ll choke and beat a hasty retreat,
c) he’ll find himself in a place where he has to psyche himself up each time he approaches a woman.
It gets worse.
The now-despondent male will often seek the advice of friends or heed the “conventional wisdom” and buy into the beliefs such as “Just be yourself,” “Love will happen as soon as you stop looking for it,” and (it pains me to say I’m not making this up)
“You have to BE a friend to HAVE a friend.”
OK, enough. Gag me with a f@@king spoon just once.
Please, hear this:
There Are NO “Answers” Or “Information”
Or “One Right Way”
There are only POTENTIAL answers and information that only become actualized by your testing, experimenting and ACTIONS in the world.
A huge piece of the puzzle is that guys have a severely restricted and slowed method of learning what works with women.
The ratio of worry/thinking to acting is way, way off and the primary method of learning is not experimenting in the world, but thinking about things.
Remember:
Free Your Mind, And HER
Ass Will Follow
Free your mind means looking deep into the code of how you’ve been keeping yourself stuck.
If the real structure of “stuck” is doing huge amounts of thinking and very little acting, then putting MORE or different thinking through that system won’t give you much change.
And you won’t get far with just a little pocket change.
Peace,
RJ
P.S. Are you sick and tired of getting rejected, ignored, humiliated, overlooked, shut down or standing there frozen and speechless by beautiful women?
Take a bold step forward and claim your Rapid and Total Success With Women.
women challenge men with dating, invitation to their social circle and places where they are not invested, these are pitfalls to know, fair action won’t be enough so the pua should be preemptive… sometimes we have to think to their strategies to win the game
All well and good. I’ve gotten in some positive real world experience with some long weekends and extra days off. Couple days back at the grindstone and I’m right back to pushing through the pain again.
Perhaps it is also to do with using your subconscious mind more so and conscious mind less so or using each at its most appropriate time purpose. The conscious mind is useful for remembering patterns or sequences etc but should be used less so for responding and generating witty funny lines, or responses to what a women is saying etc. If you just quiet your conscious mind and let the subconscious generate responses (especially funny ones, or double meanings etc) it is amazing what you can come up with and how fast these will be popped into your mind (not pun intended). The speed and the content if generated in the subconscious mind (having already being schooled in the type of responses needed by the conscious minds speed seduction education) is more natural and in the moment. If it doesn’t flow with ease then perhaps it is a good warning sign to not only exit stage left but run for the emergency exit. If you get the huh? what? response then the person in front of you is not responding to you and is best left alone.
the meditation and breathing are good to get your focus back and get rid of those unwanted noises in the head but I still need to get my social energy level revved up to start sarging again. what is the best way to do that?….maybe this where making friends of the bar comes in ?
Of course it’s anger about the pain that’s making it worse. And frustration with making some real progress and then having to go back to dealing with unproductive emotions. I guess the re-frame on that is, how wonderful to recognize some of where I’m at and have the tools to deal with it, even if it does have to wait until next weekend.
Hi,
I find I feel actually freed when you act upon going out and approach women and whatever happens/outcome I can feel the power of the beliefs, attitudes and responses working more and more to aid in even more successful sarges and feel much much better about it from this point onwards…
Over thinking “problems” (whatever that is) up until now reading this has been “a” problem…
…Feels great to know, dunnit? How to do something about it…
Well …Yeah
Using your language? ARE YOU? Use this opportunity Gents to talk interpersonally and Intrapersonal…
I’ll Be Watching YOU…
Balance = Key
Good stuff! One of the things I love about Ross Jeffries is that he’s one of the few trainers (in ANY field, really!) who gets that the Truth is in our Body…not in our heads!
I’m looking forward to his live event in 2012!
If the real structure of “stuck” is doing huge amounts of thinking and very little acting, could it be that a way out of it is doing huge amounts of acting and very little thinking about it?
I think not!
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