Dear Speed Seduction® Student,
In Part 3 of my Sarge report, I left off where I said….
“It also helps if she looks REALLY good, walking away from me.”
….then invited your comments.
A number of you made some strong, educated, informed guesses. Now here’s the reason I had in mind at the time:
I did that to get her to laugh and fractionate her out of the state created by the commands, so when she goes back in, she goes back stronger.
Get it?
She gave me some blah blah blah after that which was rather forgettable and not relevant.
Then I said, “You know, you strike me as someone who loves to learn about herself and other people, and I think you learn alot about people by finding out where they find their focus.”
(I did this to set up the question coming up. Instead of just firing it out of the blue)
“When you really want to FOCUS IN…GIVE ALL YOUR ATTENTION in a way that FEELS GREAT, what do you love to do?”
She then went into an explanation of how she loves to write, it carries off into other worlds and she steps aside and lets something else come through her.
🙂 Is This Too Easy Or What?
I fed that back about how wonderful it is to find a NEW DIRECTION in your thought…FEEL SOMETHING SO BIG COME INSIDE YOU. You can COME OVER AND OVER AGAIN TO ONE CONCLUSION-this(point down to crotch) is amazing.
At this point it was already time to go. I mentioned we should hang out again and she agreed.
Had I more time, I would have fractionated to playing another game that involved touching, and/or taken her to another location. Then I would have gotten progressively more touching, either by offering a demo about building good new feelings, or by rubbing the back of her neck as I got up to go to the bathroom.
Some points: notice in this sarge I had to work within the time I had. She showed up 45 minutes AFTER the appointed time-who knows how far we could have gotten further.
She did make it quite plain that she is a very sexual person(her words).
What Comes Next?
This all happened a couple years ago. Out of respect for the ladies (I do hope you’re respecting your ladies) I rarely kiss-and-tell while the kissing is still going on. But I’ve used similar patterns and methods as recently as….this past week….so this IS current.
To bring this report to a close, the next part is what I wrote when I first entered this in my Sarge diary and reflects what was on my mind at the time:
“I will likely contact her tomorrow, see if we can hang out shortly. She’s mentioned writing and being sexual, so I’ll bring something along for her. Would like to play with her a bit on the phone if possible but she has said she is not a big phone talker.”
Now, you’re read the report, so it’s your turn…
Comments? Questions?
Leave your comments below.
Peace and piece,
RJ
P.S. Whatever you can get a woman to imagine, is perceived by her as being her own thought and therefore is not resisted. Therefore, first capture and guide a woman’s imagination and you can then get her to do almost anything you want… and she’ll think it’s her own idea!
That’s a small piece of what you’ll learn inside Speed Seduction® 3.0 >>>
Paul,
You obviously got a great response and the interaction seemed to be mutually enjoyable. I’m just curious as to why you weren’t upset or at least “called her out,” for lack of a better phrase, as to why she showed up 45 minutes AFTER she said she would? Even though she seemed to have an excuse, isn’t that disrespectful to you and your valuable time?
I would not have gotten all upset if she was 45mins late. but 1hour would have been to long.
remeember `(We arrange to meet at 2:30 – I get a txt at 2:45 saying she’ll be there soon, had to eat something first.
She doesn’t show until 3:15 (she has to leave at 4 to get to class)`.
She sent a txt message to say that she was running late. women usually are always late IMO. 45mins is a long time it was not so bad becuase it was inside a starbucks.
I said similar to this and I agree with you, but I made a slight error thinking it was the first meeting…still I think women do this stuff instinctively/unconsciously as a kind of a test, to test a man’s neediness or lack of options.
A man with with a busy schedule and a man with options wrt to women & high self-respect won’t wait for long. It’s what one of my fave PUA mentors calls trying to put the man into a subservient frame. Most guys just don’t realise women are doing this all the time! 🙂
“You know, you strike me as someone who loves to learn about herself and other people, and I think you learn alot about people by finding out where they find their focus.”
This statement is a softener. It is used prior to a “seduction question”.
Plus, it has an implied challenge in it. ‘You strike me as someone who loves to learn about herself and other people’ Most will people will not say, “No, I’m not the type of person who likes to learn about myself or others”.
“I think you learn alot about people by finding out where they find their focus” MIGHT be a truism, I’m not 100% sure.
“When you really want to FOCUS IN…GIVE ALL YOUR ATTENTION in a way that FEELS GREAT, what do you love to do?”
This is the seduction question. It contains (obviously) embedded commands which are in ALL CAPS. Unfortunately, we do not know what she said to see what her trance words are and also what her self anchors are.
QUESTION:
“I did that to get her to laugh and fractionate her out of the state created by the commands, so when she goes back in, she goes back stronger.”
Can you explain what it means when she “goes back stronger”? Does that mean she will give you a more intense doggy dinner bowl look (or, some other strong response such as pupil dilation, arm catalepsy, the v shape lip, etc.) the next time you use a pattern?
`Can you explain what it means when she “goes back stronger”?
What it means is that she begins to feel/visualize the language on a more intense level the second time around. It becomes more real/stronger, i have read this rule before.
This is helping. Both the reminder of the pre-opener and the setup question are consistent with what I’ve currently been noticing about context and perspective of where I’m at in a sarge at any given moment.
I went looking for ‘resources’ the other day and instead of the feel-good memories I was looking for I got stuck in the memory of singles event I attended about a year ago.
I had done very well up to the point of engaging an attractive young lady in conversation at the periphery of the group where we could talk comfortably. There were some resources in what I did up to that point, when she started really opening up about her passion in some kind of arts and crafts type of hobby and I interrupted to ask the “seduction” question about when I’m at an event like this I like to play the game of who’s connecting and who isn’t (not us anymore! lol). I might have actually induced some kind of deep trance right there because she just completely blanked out. Not quite what I was going for. Actually, knowing what I was going for in a progression from A to C was missing. Your teaching covers it. Thank you for continuing to reinforce it.
Ross, when you said she was 45 minutes late, I thought the next thing you were going to do was lay down the law. How do you determine whether you need to let her know that’s not acceptable, or let it slide?
What I would do is hit her with a funny but sarcastic comment about her being late, you know bust her a little to show I’m aware of it & then focus on us having a good time.
If she’s weird about my reaction to her lateness ie bitchy or acts like an entitled princess I would end the date & walk.
Inspite of the golden inside that Sarge Report, What about the speed seduction thing? It’s sound like “slow turtle seduction”! Sometimes, slowdown the seduction process, can be interesting, and pleasant, then a 10 minutes get laid, but i was in a hope of Ross Sarge Report like he always claim.
And what is that “I rarely kiss and tell”? If someone did classes or knew a single teacher who don’t tell about your experiences, please, tell me, cause I did not.