Republished at the request of the Brain Dump Community on August 25, 2017.
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Dear Seeker of Success,
Want to have a threesome with two chicks at the same time?
So many of my students either have, or want to, that I’m thinking of adding it to a “bucket list” of must-haves that every smart guy must experience at least once, if for no other reason than to know he “went there.”
Problem: many women won’t “go there.”
Why?
Oftentimes it’s societal “rules.”
It breaks a taboo to engage in any sort of group sex, or anything other than one man and one woman doing it.
You’d think that the ticket booth at the Poontang Express only sells tickets in pairs.
Not true.
Sometimes, she’s skiddish.
Or afraid of unanticipated consequences.
Or maybe she’s straight, really doesn’t want to touch another girl, and isn’t sold on your “promises” that it will be her and her best friend working on you, but not each other.
Maybe she’s worried you’ll like her friend better (it could be a competition or ego thing).
The “Warming Question” That Breaks The Ice And Gets You
Closer To The Triple Play
Now: the following is something I almost never just hand out.
So you’ll want to write this down, print it, bookmark this post, whatever the f@@k you have to do so you don’t lose it.
Ask this question:
“If you could go somewhere where no one knew who you were, and nothing you did would ever get back to anyone you did know, what kinds of experiences would you like to have, with what kind of person, with what kind of feelings?”
Then add:
I find when I LET THOSE THOUGHTS AND FEELINGS run through YOUR MIND, it’s the kind of thing that let’s me realize that sometimes YOU WANT TO SUCK SEED in stripping away from every day life, now and again, and FEEL YOUR OPENING to something novel..some new..A NEW DIRECTION you can IMAGINE TAKING INSIDE.
Now…when you ask that question you will get the following kinds of responses:
- A vivid response with a vivid description.
- A vivid response with a non-vivid description. They just go inside, access the thoughts and the states. Often they blush or look embarrassed
- A non-vivid response with a vivid description(they describe it vividly but for some reason they don’t access the feelings-this is most rare)
- A confused response. They don’t get what you mean
- A defensive response.
I’m looking for 1 & 2.
3 can be worked with as well.
4 is possible if they also show a willingness to understand.
Forget 5.
Ever tried this (or something like it?)
How did it work out for you? (Leave a comment below).
Or, go out and do it and then report back here how it went.
Peace,
RJ
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That´s an h-bomb pattern. Unfortunatelly those ambiguities in the 2nd part doesn´t totaly aplly in portuguese, although i could divise from myself some poetry with similar ambiguities… The results are devastating, and the way i´ve used it, it turns in something you want to use with caution, just like some of the “forbidden” patterns…
Great insights about the responses, although i think sometimes even when you get a type 5 response you can get your way around it with some metacomments and reframing, specially when i use it with quotes. Of course you do this only if you find it worthy, if not, i direct my precious time to someone who could enjoy it more…
I’m aware that we sometimes need to, well, translate the wording to account for language and cultural considerations.
When you understand the techniques, as much as (or more than) the words themselves, you have the power to adapt.
You seem to have a pretty good handle on this.
This is a good short pattern. I have had 2 threesomes in my life and neither were very hard to get. My girlfriend at the time of the first one was bi curious which opened up many doors of opportunity. The other one was when I was in Miami on vacation. Two “girlfriends” I was partying with invited me to come back to their hotel room with them. Now I am a white male that only dates black and hispanic women. The reason that is significant is because as a general rule communication tends to be a bit different with these women. I find that just stating what you like and want and are willing to do at the very beginning goes a long way toward getting it from them in the end. I don’t know that such bluntness would work as well with white females.
These kinds of experiences are easier to get than many people are willing to believe.
A student of mine was in the library working on a term paper with two female classmates. He knew the one was into him, but thought the other didn’t even like him.
Then they proposed going back to his place so he could have them both at the same time.
It was a surprise. He went for it. Found out he hit it off more with the one he didn’t think liked him!
OH Wow! I never thought about that.. 😉 I’m gonna try this tomorrow! I’ll let you know.
Cheers!
Good on you!
I find it too hot sleeping between 2 girls you sweat heaps ..lol and they being gals they ended up breaking up as friends.. caused more trouble than it was worth…lol
1) Air conditioning.
2) That’s not your fault.
when I asked my girlfriend about threesome, she answered she will be ok with it if I accept a 2-male to 1 female threesome, too!
How do you handle this answer?
Ask yourself if you’d enjoy that.
If you don’t mind, go for it. You won’t be judged by anyone who matters, and you’ll be surprised how many heterosexual guys have done the MFM.
If you do mind it, though, don’t.
Stay true to your integrity.
Heh! Nice incantation, you crafty bastard.
(Trivia: it’s said that only 1 in 30 girls would consider a threesome, but when alcohol’s involved, it drops to 1 in 9.)
You might just want to include a ‘caveat emptor’ line that threesomes work best as spontaneous ‘flings’ with new girls. If you have an existing relationship with a girl you really care about and want to keep around, a threesome can be what ends the relationship. (Of course, maybe Speed Seduction includes a way around this.)
When you have open communication and everyone’s on the same page, it can work out fine.
Some chicks are into polyamory; or are bisexual, want to be in a relationship with a man but also play with other girls.
Find a woman who meets the criteria you need and go from there.
Ross, that’s pure gold!! And not just for threesomes – a pattern like that could cause her to lose every inhibition she has.
I have the benefit of living in a tourist town. Most of the women I meet are in an environment where nobody knows them and they don’t expect to see anyone around here again. I’ve made a habit of reminding them of that fact. I can’t tell you how many times I’ve heard something along the lines of, “I wouldn’t do this back home where my friends could find out about it, but I want to .”
Girls on vacation are FUN!! Now just imagine getting any girl into that mindset at will! Whew! The possibilities are mind blowing.
Honestly, Ross, that pattern is priceless, and you gave it away for free. We all owe you a great big “Thank You”!!
You’re welcome.
Many of my students go to the “tourist” areas of their own town for the reasons you describe.
This topic also reminded me an old pickup line: The guy says to the girl: “Debbie, do you like pu##y?” she answers: “NO! of course not…” Guy: “So, could you give me yours?” LOL
Combine that with the “What’s His Pickup Line?” technique and you’re mining solid gold.
To Little #4 (if he’s even an adult), drink less if you want to sweat less in bed. ANY kind of bedwetting is not cool, just so you know. #5 might actually consider honestly telling her his feelings! What a f@@king concept! #8 should come back when his pu##y grows pubic hair. Ross, YOU are one dangerous bastard. I salute yer crazy a$$. Consider yourself an Honorary USAF Security Forces member minus the wussy PC bull$#it.
USAF Security Forces?
Hmmm…just what exactly are you guarding? Any UFO type stuff?
I’ve seen some VERY weird shit flying around and I’m not kidding. Even had a Close Encounter when I was 9 years hold. Damn thing filled up the window of the room I was in, just hung there, making no possible sense. Was a shifting, glowing blob of light with a vaguely barrel shape. I’m not joking.
Hey Ross,
This is a follow-up to your email of September 7, 2010 at 2:00 pm to Sgt. Paul.
I’ve seen some weird sh*t too and no, I wasn’t smokin’ any. Also, had an Air Force radar operator confirm same. Maybe you should contact Major Mark, or someone a little closer to home, for a little regression hypno….might be there’s more that occurred in your experience, that you’re not recalling.
Just a thought.
It’s been a long time since I’ve spoken with Major Mark.
Some guys have been asking for an update to the old “Frame Control” curriculum. I’m tossing the idea around.
wtf u really taking about Ross…for real bro …u had dat fucking awesome fucking experience..lolllllll
Yep
Ross,here u r really tricky.u ask her to think herself but actually u through a “direction” by giving a situation and then u hv narrowed down the option to direct it to froce her to think of-lonely place-no fear-so socail leakage- some person whom u like–what feeling u want to hv
Ross u hv actually no given her any choice but thrown a scene with no choice but to think only sexuall pleasure and that too she will feel that it was her thinking and not urs.
really great conversation design…..
You decoded it!
Here are the keys to the Kingdom of Sarge.
The Gray Cat awaits your arrival.
RJ, you still got it! (not that I’d ever thought you’d lose it, haha).
Just checking in on you, and glad to see you’re still the greatest teacher these guys could ask for. I hope all’s been well.
-Pete
@Pete
I appreciate you.
RJ
Reunite with that flip flop wearing bastard mark CUNNINGham ? Last I heard he was in Hollywood gallivanting around with 80’s star Katherine Oxenberg, and has been rejected by mainstream America with trying to introduce his world….Speaking of frame control , what was the point of that long ass pattern at the end, was it a DOS version of the pattern you introduced on this blog?
It’s been a long time since I’ve spoken with Major Mark.
Some guys have been asking for an update to the old “Frame Control” curriculum. I’m tossing the idea around.
you displayed curiousity by asking them if they were sisters
Right
Good one. and blah, blah, blah……I also find that as our lives..GO BY (I)QUICKLY. NOW WITH ME… THIS MOMENT to discover…blah, blah, blah, ha, ha and under the radar
See, you got the idea! With this wisdom, you can make up your own patterns now. That’s a rubicon few ever manage to cross.