Dear Seeker of Success,
Being able to succeed with women has everything to do with being in the right state of mind.
In the right state of mind, you can even flub up your execution of your game plan and still have the woman leaping into your bed.
With the wrong state of mind, even the best laid plans (pun intended) often go wrong.
So let’s talk about how you can up your state of mind using two key concepts: vibe and meaning.
Key Idea #1:
Tapping In To The Power Of Vibe
Let’s talk first about your vibe.
My definition of “vibe” is the overall and immediate unspoken emotional atmosphere that you create with your presence.
This is usually perceived largely on the unconscious level by women and causes an overall unconscious shift into a positive mood on her part.
Let me bring this even more clearly down to the ground for your so you can immediately recognize this is important and useful.
A vibe, generally speaking, is experienced by the women you meet as an overall body sensation.
Now please note: It’s not necessarily intense, but it’s an overall, diffuse sensation. Within that, there could be ripples of local intensity, depending on what kind of vibe it is.
For example, she may feel an overall body sensation of comfort, but inside of that, may be feeling localized ripples of arousal, desire, even deep connection.
(If this sounds a bit “airy/fairy” to you, I can assure you that this indeed is how women experience their subjective feeling world. So knowing this is crucial. )
Key Idea #2:
Tapping Into The Power Of Meaning
Next, pay attention to the deeply held beliefs and meaning you attach to the moves you make with women.
One can be, “I have to make this work,” which carries a sense of desperation. And nothing turns women off more than that.
Another less than useful meaning you can give to approaching women is, “I really HOPE this works”. That’s a coming from a frame of despair. Again, a turn off.
Finally, there is the anger frame: “This bitch had better bite down on this”. Again, a less than useful meaning.
The best meaning you can attach to approaching women is,
“Let’s have some fun and see what happens. I’m going to learn something.”
Another good way to phrase it is:
“Let’s see. Let’s go let the world show me what I can really do. Let’s go find out and have some fun.”
In other words, take on a fun/learning frame, where you can’t lose.
Because you’ll either enjoy getting what you want, or enjoy learning what you need to get what you want, or better.
And that sure beats a poke in the eye.
Peace,
RJ
P.S. Understanding and changing your personal metaphor allows you to make contact with, and look deeply into, the depths of your unconscious and the heights of your super-conscious mind. It automatically takes all of your stumbling blocks and turns them into stepping stones.
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