Dear Speed Seduction® Student,
Many of my students begin their journey toward Speed Seduction® mastery by carefully studying my teachings to increase their self-esteem and charisma and master the critical skills necessary to achieve what they want when it comes to the women they desire.
Whether you’re looking to get laid, have “friends with benefits,” find your soulmate, or even add excitement to your existing relationship (yes, you can use Speed Seduction® to spice up your sex life with your wife!), it’s up to you to take my teachings and adapt them to your situation.
However, sometimes, you think you have it “down,” but then certain limiting beliefs creep up. For example:
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I’ve had the belief that to seduce the type of women who are most attractive to me I must play the “boyfriend” role, which I don’t want to do. Is it selfish of me to just want to sleep with women?
What has happened in the past is: women quickly fall in love with me and want to call me all the time, hang out all the time and “play house.” I’m not interested in playing house with woman anymore, but on the other hand I don’t want to hurt any woman emotionally either.
If I follow what works and then sleep with them, and then only want to hang out with them when it’s convenient for me, well I feel kind of guilty about that.
It’s not that I can’t go and get laid, its that I don’t want any woman to fall in love with me, or want me to be their boyfriend. I have a fear that I will eventually hurt them. In the past I just kind of stayed with them for LTR’s in order not to hurt them, and then ended up hurting them even more. I know it sounds silly but I’m only human.
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First, foremost, uppermost, and important-most: your beliefs are something that you have the power to consciously change.
If you are repeating in your mind, over and over, what happened in the past, feeling what you felt back then, seeing yourself doing and responding the same things in the same way, is it any friggin’ wonder that your brain, given such repeated instructions, repeats the same reactions, feelings, and behaviors now?
By focusing on “what was” you are creating artificial barriers. So you just want to get laid? Did you think there may be many, many women who are looking to get laid too? Do you think they’d mind getting some hot, explosive action from you? It takes two to tango, and the more you dwell, the less you’ll dance.
Up until now, you have stayed in “real-hate-shun-ships by default” because your belief system told you that was what’s expected of you. What happens today, tonight, tomorrow, next week, and for the rest of your life, is entirely up to you.
Peace and piece,
RJ
P.S. Now, maybe this is a bit dramatic to describe your situation. But does it seem to you like the process of learning and personal change just feels exhausting?
Like no matter how hard you want to progress some other part keeps cropping up to get in your way or the same old responses, beliefs, actions and patterns of behavior keep coming up, forcing you to fight through them, no matter how much you truly try?
Using my Nail Your Inner Game course, you can blast past stuck points … untangle your past … turn confusion to clarity and losing to learning! Get your copy today:
