Dear Speed Seduction(R) Student,
Last night as I was laying in bed with my smoking hot Swedish girlfriend, Pernilla, she turned to me and said:
"Du ar min snuskig hummer".
Translated from the Swedish, it means, "You are my filthy lobster".
Now, I have no real idea what the actual meaning of that Swedish idiom means. But what I do know is that I deeply enjoy Pernilla because she not only has a wacky sense of humor, but because she is deeply open to life, comfortable with her sexuality, and has a genuine sense of adventure.
Do I tell you this to make you jealous of my situation with my Svenska sweetheart?
Of course I do-I’m a guy, and guys love to brag about their hot women, right?
But really, I do it to make a point: you don’t need to be afraid of "getting caught" when you pick a woman with the right personality traits.
The reality for all of you guys who are afraid of "getting caught" is that healthy women-the women most fun to be with-WANT to be seduced if it is done skillfully.
In Pernilla’s case, not only did I NOT have to fear "getting caught", but she actually knew who I was and what I did for a living before she met me. She had read about me in the Swedish version of "The Game" and found it all intriguing.
So what is my main point? Pick the right kind of women. Put it into your mind that you will seek out women who are comfortable with their sexuality and enjoy being seduced.
But keep your snuskig hander off of my Pernilla if you are ever lucky enough to meet her. She’s mine….got that?
Peace and piece,
RJ
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This is awesome, Ross!
Being selective about those around you creates a much more powerful environment for success in any realm of life.
I have definitely had this challenge in the past. I was with a woman who had lost all respect for me… but I thought that if I just supplicated enough, she would appreciate me again… no such luck. I finally decided to end the relationship… and shortly thereafter, she wanted me back… not this time!
Since then, I have become more and more selective about the women with whom I spend my time… and my interactions with women have grown better and better…
It’s no longer about “What if she says no…” or “How do I know if she’ll like me…” A much better question to ponder is “I wonder how she will convince me that she is cool enough for me to spend some time with her?”
Your courses have turned my perceptual world on its ear… repeatedly!
Thanks again, Ross!
keep smiling,
ben
Good job
Ok Ross, I promise not to steal any woman you ever take seriously and therefore respect. But I can’t promise I won’t flirt with them.
And please put your monster lobster away. 🙂
Hey Ross, It sounds like you hit the jackpot with Pernilla! I’ve not met her but I have to say that I hope she understands that she is priveleged to be with YOU not just vice versa. Nice job man, you deserve it! Looking forward to you announcing dates for your next live event! Until further notice…celebrate everything! Your friend, Jorge Bueno
Hi Ross that’s my sister,what you doing to her, man I ll tell mom.lol
Man you are the master, seroiusly, I read your stuff everyday, I never comment in your stuff, man can you help me, I m fighting real bad to stop being shy and I told my friend about you. Man I work as I security officer, and I see lot od pretty girls I make them laugh and they talk about me and some get even intersted in me, please tell me a good line that I can say to one girl at my work, to make her want me, please, and please how do I talk to a girl in the church to make her laugh and want me. Lol please
Pedro
Glad you foud someone like your Pernilla…but beware of the fishermen, Filthy Lobster, because if they catch you they are going to make you …well, you shall become the Guru Special Dish of the Sunday night
Not to digress, Ross, but isn’t being selective in your friendships, interests and pursuits a fundamental part of life? It makes sense that you’d be involved with a woman, even briefly, who shares at least a little of that. We’ve all had the experience of an evening with a woman we could barely communicate with because there just wasn’t anything we had in common. Maybe the sex was okay, but a conversation was impossible.
Hey Ross, it looks like you like your women like you like your cars.
What do you mean I have a wacky sense of humor?!
Well, you’d have to have a sense of humor to date me, wouldn’t you babe?
Tja, snygging
Well, I would not call that wacky, that’s just insane babe.
Puss snygging
You’re a favorite RJ!
Speaking as a girl (and a pretty hot girl at that), I can’t say it more explicitly than this — yes we want to be seduced:
http://awakeningfromthedream.blogspot.com/2008/10/we-want-to-be-seduced.html
And not with “camel in the desert eating dates at the oasis” routines either … lol 🙂