Dear Speed Seduction® Student,
Fear of the unknown – the promise of an uncertain future – is scary to some. Moving to a new town, starting a new job, setting aside your previous beliefs – all of it can be frightening. So can letting a new person become a part of your life, no matter how hot and bothered and giddy they make you feel.
Let’s say you’ve used my one-on-one teachings and progressed nicely with a woman using Speed Seduction®, but then, just when you think you’re about to get laid, she puts her high heels on the brakes and says “whoa, partner, not so fast.”
Now what? How do we get this train moving again?
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A couple of weeks ago I approached a blonde hottie at a cafe. We went out on a date and were making out like crazy, but she did not let me come up her apartment. I was okay with that because at least I got her really turned on and she told me she never had a guy approached her the way I did and talk the way I talked (you know, because I was using your teachings).
The following week we hung out again and were making out like crazy. I’m ready to take her places she’s never been – man, “it’s on!” But THEN she said “You take things too fast” and that she never makes out with a guy without first hanging out with him a couple times. She just kept on holding me tight and we were still all over each other, but still she didn’t let me in her apartment.
So before I left I asked, “When do I call you?” (Stupid of me…I know.) I left a message and then she writes to me the next day making excuses and apologizing for not calling and that she would call me the next day. It’s been a couple of days and she still has not called. I won’t call her either. I feel I have put too much meaning in this girl and now I’m stuck. Can you help?
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First of all, you need to move past being “stuck.” The only thing keeping you “stuck” is your belief that you are stuck. If you’re really into this chick, powerfully claim that you have simply come to a fork in the road on the way to ultimate Seduction success in banging this woman silly. And as Yogi Berra said, when you come to a fork in the road, take it.
A woman’s fluctuations between wanting you and pushing you away, last minute buyer’s remorse, contradictory signals, sudden loss of interest and other seemingly (to you, up until now) irrational actions – are usually her knowing that once she jumps you and f@@ks you like a crazy woman, in her mind there’s no turning back. It’s up to you to help her take that next step in the adventure.
Peace and piece,
RJ
P.S. One of the keys to overcoming resistance is to create irresistible POSITIVE challenge, that draws women forward and massively magnifies her attraction to you, from the first word spoken to her last gasp of pleasure.
With what I teach throughout the 7 DVDs and 11 CDS of my Speed Seduction® 3.0 Course, you’ll remain calmly in control as the effortless seduction architect of every interaction and situation.
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