Dear Seeker of Success,
Another way to hook a woman’s attention during the first conversation is to get her vividly imagining something.
When you fire up her vivid imagination, every woman responds differently….
….and each woman responds differently depending on where she is at that particular moment.
I’ll say,
“When you go on vacation, do you ever really want to escape and just go somewhere where nothing you do would ever get back to anyone who knows you?”
I’ve had some women go there for a minute and come back and say, “Yes.”
Maybe she’s hooking into a vivid visualization. Maybe she’s hooking into the theme of what you’re talking about, like the theme of escape.
And, I’ll Do A False-Misdirect To Make
The Whole Thing Seem Unscripted
It can work something like this:
ROSS: Are you a roller, folder, or tosser?
DEBBIE: What does that mean?
ROSS: Okay. Do you ever want to really just escape and go somewhere where no one knows who you are and nothing you do will ever get back to anyone who does know you?
Now, if she does something like, giving the doggy-bowl dinner look – or something more subtle like sighing and biting her lip – that means she is going into a sexual state, or a fantasy state.
And guess what?
She Has Also Just Given
You Her Self-Anchor
Sometimes, when people go into a certain state of mind, there’s a look and gesture in something they make.
Have you ever seen a woman sigh and bite her lip? That’s her self-anchor that puts her into the fantasy state.
Am I going to use that later?
Am I going to say something like, “This coffee is…” and then sigh and bite my lip?
You bet your sweet seduction ass I will.
What am I doing? I’m taking her sexual state and I’m drinking it down. Taking it in.
Is that fair?
Come Back Tomorrow For The
“Big Bang” Conclusion
We’re going to look deep inside her and see some other things that could be going on.
Peace,
RJ
P.S. As you may begin to see for yourself, women do NOT respond in a “connect the dots” and “paint by the numbers” fashion. See how I took her, within seconds, from an innocent question about how she packs a suitcase to a sexual fantasy state?
This is part and parcel of what’s known as The Non-Linear Dynamics Of Sexual Interaction™.
You say
When you go on vacation, do you ever really want to escape and just go somewhere where nothing you do would ever get back to anyone who knows you?”
Then you say
ROSS: Are you a roller, folder, or tosser?
DEBBIE: What does that mean?
ROSS: Okay. Do you ever want to really just escape and go somewhere where no one knows who you are and nothing you do will ever get back to anyone who does know you?
So this sequence allows the thought to go in deeper, fractionate? Then you wait for answer and response to anchor?
Pretty much!