Dear Speed Seduction(R) Students,
In this video, recorded live at Cafe Buna(that’s why the noise levels are so high!) I give some great methods to overcome the fear of rejection.
To summarize:
1. She’s never rejecting me, because she doesn’t even know me. All she knows is whatever image of me she’s formed in those few scant moments.
2. Even better, most of the time “rejection” is just her first autopilot response, and I seldom take those as written in stone.
Please enjoy and please leave your comments below.
RJ
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Thank you, Ross.
It’s amazing how much you can appreciate the near-universal desire to connect, and let go of plaguing fear and doubt when you learn to breathe deep, properly direct your focus, and change your beliefs.
You covered one of my favorite concepts in this video… it has really changed my life… It is incredible how attractive we become when we truly develop standards and screen women for more than appearance.
Looking forward to more!
keep smiling,
ben
Ross, great advice as always!
Ross is right life is too short as is so don’t live your life in fear of the rejection from others. They don’t know you… and it took me a long time to get that. Why would you want to give someone that much power any why?
I assume that woman’s first response is her auto response and that that isn’t really what she means. I forgive her for her initial failure to recognize the amazingly powerful and attractive man I am. (That shows you my mind frame and she doesn’t know it yet but it will soon be hers as well)
If I meet continued resistance I assume that either she is a hard core lesbian or is rejecting my advertising campaign. But she is never rejecting me personally, only her misunderstanding of who I am as a man. By this time I have usually started working on her friends using Speed Seduction and when my target sees her friends about to cream her panties she is begging me for my attention.
Even if she was rejecting me personally why would it matter? She isn’t the only woman in the world that I could have sex with and her rejection wouldn’t mean that I forfeit my right to exist. It’s her loss not mine.
Keep it comming brother,
Glyn
Glyn & Ben – must agree! Guys, it works the same for all SS’. Having the same beliefs (of course, we’ve got the same teacher) and works the same for me. :)) I remember this quote, don’t know who said it. It sums up this belief system:
They cannot defeat me. The only thing they can do to me is kill me. And when they have killed me, they haven’t defeated me.. because my spirit is indominable.
-Martin
hey…
disagree…
greatings…
Thank you! I would now go on this blog every day!…
hi…
Great job. But not enought info. Where can i read more?…