Dear Seeker of Success,
It’s an age old problem.
Boy sees girl.
Boy walks up to girl.
Boy Sarges on girl.
But it feels like he’s working his Seduction ass off to keep the conversation going, yes it’s not getting him any closer to the part where…
… Boy Nails Girl And Makes Her Scream His Name
With Delight As She C*m*s Over And Over And Over
Why are things getting bogged down? I just got this S.O.S. from a student who is pretty good at starting the engine, but he just can’t seem to get it to the races…
Sometimes I get stuck asking too many questions to the woman. Maybe it’s too passive an approach.
Although I am not going to knock just asking questions because I know lots of guys who claim to have great success from doing almost nothing but asking questions, in most contexts, it feels like doing nothing but asking questions is setting the therapist/patient frame; not the Seduction frame.
Most real players I know ask questions, but ask questions sparingly, even you, Ross. You’re great at pacing a woman, but I think for you it’s more about leading her. Am I on the right track here?
Look: for me, questions aren’t about just satisfying my curiosity.
They have a strategic intent.
I am asking questions to stimulate those parts of her mind and those responses that will drive her in the direction I want her to go, and also to get information (her key trance words, for example) that will assist me in my Sarge.
You need to know what KINDS of questions lead to the right answers and non-verbal responses…and then know what you are going to DO with them to get her to jump you and beg you to f@@k her.
And you’re right; I AM leading all the time (though to untrained eyes it would not look that way), but the questions I ask evoke responses and information I then strategically use to make her jump me.
Peace,
RJ
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