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    Sabra October 28, 2010, 8:31 am

    Ross, I love you. You are the man. From what I see 97 % of all the other dating coaches are crap, but you are the real deal. I love you.
    Soon to move back to the United States, Sabra

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    Diño October 28, 2010, 8:45 am

    The negation pattern also should be a great way to keep the things rolling when he actually meets her…

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    Abe October 28, 2010, 10:26 am

    Another really good one by the undisputed champ of seduction. I know this is off-topic but I have a really good question. Do you do anything PROACTIVELY to get that great voice of yours like do you NOT eat certain things (dairy and caffeine supposedly makes your voice scratchy and dehydrates it), do you have a vocal coach etc…? Thanks for the advice.

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      Ross Jeffries October 28, 2010, 6:22 pm

      @Abe

      Actually, I love coffee and eat cheese like a motherfucker.

      I just worked on my voice, consciously breathing into my abdomen and practicing until I could speak with resonance.

      RJ

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        Harry Lime July 21, 2014, 11:05 am

        You are right woman are natural ss’rs pulled this off a FB posting from a woman club promoter who was promoting a bar filled with men from out of town for a convention who were visitng this bar en masse:

        “Come to Blah Blah Pub, ladies! So many single business men from XYZ corp! Plus we’re open on a sunday, it’s kinda a big deal”

        Come=cum, “so many business men”=men with money/influence ” it’s open on a sunday kinda a big deal” scarcity big=well you know if anyone knows the attraction pattern:)

        A guy called her on it ans he had a hissy fit and said it meant something else

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    Paul Foster October 28, 2010, 6:45 pm

    I think that it was Freud who said that “a denial was as good as an admission”. Nice to know that idea extends to man’s eternal quest for nooky.

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    Zarathud October 28, 2010, 7:07 pm

    Bravo! I would have missed that one.

    Coffee and cheese are good. I do recommend practicing your voice if you don’t always use it a lot (e.g. writing code all day). It makes a big difference. I don’t know if it’s just my perception, but the guys I work with seem to be resonating much more pleasantly too now.

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    Andrew October 28, 2010, 8:08 pm

    Hahaha the good old bullshit generator… So much better and funnier when it’s generating excuses to do things we want to happen, instead of screwing us over hahahaha…. Solid gold Ross, as always!

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    Entertaingguy October 28, 2010, 8:38 pm

    Ross,

    I remember 12-13 years ago you teaching a trance voice technique that was the most profound improvement for me by breathing and making the AAAAA, EEEEE, IIIII, OOOOOO, UUUUUUU repeatedly with resonance. You called it the 10 hour orgasm or something. Is this something you still teach or is there something better?

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      Ross Jeffries October 31, 2010, 12:22 pm

      @Entertain

      I had forgotten about that. Took that one from Bandler. Should reintroduce it.

      RJ

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    Albert October 29, 2010, 1:55 am

    The guy ‘abe’ has brought up an excellent point. Voice is very important as much as its tone, pace and variance. But back to Ross, I’ve read some of your stuff but this article on LMR has caught my attention and believe this area of deniability by her, comes in many forms not obvious to the average male especially yours truely. Another form of deniability is when this girl I met described her sexual orientation through the words spoken by a psysic back to her when she was visiting as a tourist in Paris. Does this make any sense ?

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      Ross Jeffries October 31, 2010, 12:21 pm

      @Albert

      Yes, she is using quotes without knowing it! Most women have at least a basic grasp of SS methods without even being aware of it! I just love the female of the species!

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    Abe October 29, 2010, 8:29 am

    I’ve been using this stuff in spanish and let me tell yah, it works. So for all those brothers that questions whether or not you can use this for indian/asian/black/middle eastern women etc… Just do it. It’s not as tedious as I thought it would be (creating language patterns in spanish as well as translate the ones ross teaches). A human being is a human being. period. Lotsa fun seducing those really smoking babes the kind you see on those spanish tv channels.

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      Ross Jeffries October 31, 2010, 12:20 pm

      @Abe

      I am seriously growing more convinced that, after getting past some initial jadedness, the HOTTER the woman, the easier the seduction. Why? Because she’s been bombarded with so much of the same thing, over and over, that YOU stand out as rare ,unique, scarce and totally something she MUST chase down and have.

      Just gotta control the state through the initial seeming ‘bitch shield” and then try not to lose it when you are pumping a perfect ass into oblivion.

      To be poetic about it, of course…

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    Thomas October 30, 2010, 1:48 pm

    Thanks Ross

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    Abe November 1, 2010, 6:05 pm

    LoL at your response. Alot of my own personal state issues (maybe alot of people or everyone can relate to this) came in the form of lust. For example, as I go to approach, I would AUTOMATICALLY make mental movies about the woman doing “nice” things (hehe) for/to me. Throwing away my porn collection was one of the best things I ever did. Oftentimes, I could be dressed like crap and I’ll make eye contact and smile and she’ll end up sarging me. Shinzen’s teachings are awesome. You think he has game? hehe

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    Aydar November 6, 2010, 10:45 am

    ROSS, here it is! THANKS! now I know what it was. went to f*** good luck, guys

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    Jesus Arrieta December 4, 2010, 12:47 am

    Hello, Mr Jeffries

    First of all, I have to say that you are amazing…20/10

    and I just want to ask you one thing about your Suggestions and Affirmations…

    Like for example…as I see that the Phrases like “A person can feel horny, Debbie” do have a great impact on a woman’s mind…

    do you think that it can work the same way in affirmations to boost self esteem or self confidence…

    like

    “I can feel that I love myself”

    since you have said that the word “can” disipates the resistance and

    the words like “imagine” or “feel” in some way activate an imagination or a sensation…

    do you think if I use these words on my affirmations…will they help me???

    Thank you and have a nice day!

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