Dear Speed Seduction® Student,
Time after time, you hear about a guy trying to get some woman to like him. This message of “impressing her,” “going the extra mile,” etc. is played out all the time in the movies, music, and other dreck pumped out by the romance industry.
Most of the time the “moral” of the story is “just be yourself.”
Bullshit.
First, foremost, uppermost, important-most, you must get this: there’s a distinction between going out and thinking, “I’m going to get a girl to like me. I have to get that girl to like me,” and “I’m going to have fun with this and take it as far as I can go with it.”
It’s exhausting to try to get people to like you. You don’t want to do that. That’s not what you’re here for. Why the f@@k do you want to keep chasing after people? “Please like me. Let me show you this pattern. You’re so beautiful. I like you. Please like me.”
That’s not what it’s about.
Rather, it’s about… can you find a place inside that says, “What are my boundaries? Let me root into my feet, breathe from my belly, push my boundaries about what I think is possible for myself, and see how much fun I can have playing with people and giving them an experience that connects me with them and makes me feel good.”
What Happens If You Still Find
Yourself Desperately Supplicating?
When you find yourself trying to “get some chick to like you”, try this:
Recall times when you did feel deeply connected with people and felt an understanding, bond and connection. Wrap yourself in that.
Otherwise it does turn into, “I’m going to be a dancing monkey and do these clever patterns.”
You’ll be saying to yourself, “Why should I bother doing all this stuff? Why should I have to jump around and do all this? I’m a man.”
What the f@@k?
You don’t need to do a lot. You don’t need to do a million things. Just engage women’s attention. Get through that initial five or 10 minutes where they’re really hooked into talking to you.
Then just put a little bit of a sexual intent in there. Draw them out. You’ll see how easy this gets. Remember to add in the touching. There’s friendly, dominant and sensual touch.
To run after a stranger and say, “Please like me,” is not manly or fun.
I’m showing you a better way.
Peace and piece,
RJ
P.S. Trying to “impress a chick” is often a symptom of stuck points and not having mastered the skill of generating attraction – often without even opening your mouth. In my Rapid and Total Success With Women course, I show you how to blast past through all that.
(Recall times when you did feel deeply connected with people and felt an understanding, bond and connection. Wrap yourself in that.)
HI R.J.
what if i don`t know what it is to have a deep connection with somebody and i don`t know what that feels like? do you have a metaphor to help me understand whay you mean/ maybe i am crazy…
To all, the new course is absolute gold. It is awesome. It really gets down to the core of seduction: you. It teaches you to become the kind of person that comes from the basis on which the rest of the elements of seduction are built.
For me, it was the missing link. I LOVE this course.
In the very near-future, I’m going to be purchasing as many materials from Ross as I can afford. The man speaks incredible wisdom & common sense, with a touch of down-to-Earth humor. I’m certainly a believer in Ross Jeffries & his works. Thanks RJ
I used to do that.. And sometimes I feel like doing it, still. It started in HS.. I did a couple magic tricks and then the whole fuckin’ school wants to see ( you know how kids like to gossip ). I gave in. But then I learned to withdraw after a while. I don’t care about pleasing others.. I care about pleasing myself and whatever is going to make me cum into the next dimension!! Fuck impressing ’em. And I also found that whenever I try to impress them, I immediately feel ‘distant’.. Like I am a superior or that I’m ‘different’ and I get the sense that that’s what she feels/thinks too.
And what use is that if it’s not gonna allow me to get my cock wrapped around her sweet, warm labiae and rubbing against her clitorous? The penis thrusting in and out.. in and out against her walls.. Oh yes.. That feeling right before you’re gonna cum.. it feeels so warrm and tingly.. and I think, “Oh yeah… This person is amazing…” and then I cum.
Sometimes, I like to feel like I’m banging my ‘equal’.. By that, I mean I feel suggestible to her and I like who she is, personally. I find myself more and more drawing away from dumb girl.. girls with little vocabulary and that drink soda pop. I know them when I see them.. because they always look like they are ADD.. and it’s very hard to get their attention the way I desire. I use to impress them but it’s too much work and not really fulfilling.
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@ Joe. Very wise decision. I can remember that 12 years ago I was 18, and stuck with women. I looked around the internet, bought some crap book from someone, until at one point it occured to me to just type in http://www.seduction.com.
I bought the Basic Home Study Course. I listened to it so many times, I think it must have been 20 to 30 times. It got burned into my mind.
I am from the category of “nearly hopeless, clueless, and in deep sh*t”.
That course changed me. And it’s influence is still there. I am not very successful with women yet, in terms of getting laid. But the change from where I was and where it got me is remarkable.
I made the mistake of not applying it though. This would have changed me more.
But… ever since I got that course into my mind, things haven’t been the same.
There was a missing link for me though. The person that I was. I built all of the SS stuff on that basis. And that doesn’t work very well.
Then the new course came along and it is exactly what I needed. It helps to build a foundation on which the rest is based. It is really, really good.
So yeah, get all of Ross’ stuff. If I could afford it, I’d call the office and simply tell them “I want everything”. And I would get to a seminar.
But even a single course contains so much. I don’t have most of the new stuff, so I can’t comment on that, although I know it’s awesome. Following Ross for over a decade makes you see one truth: the guy delivers. And increasingly so.
And well, there’s always the money back guarantee. Ross runs an honest business and will honor the agreement. But you won’t want to. 🙂
Ever since I got started with the new course, I have felt the need to tell everyone to get it. 🙂
I don’t usually do this, unless the material is absolutely worth it.
@ Student. Ever had a friend you were really close to? Something like that.
And if you haven’t gotten to the point of deep connections with people, I’m willing to bet that there has been at least one time where you had some type of connection. Go with that and then learn to get deeper.
I think a deep connection is sharing life experiences with someone while coming from the right attitude. “I’m going to have fun with this and take it as far as you can go with it.”
“I have to get that girl to like me,” I think means you will deeply connect to something but it’s not the girls/good direction you want, is it?
“just be yourself.”
God No…Make an Impression…..lol
“Just be yourself”
That depends on the self that you are.
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Good insights Ross!
Today I was thinking among similar lines were there was this cute one working at the counter at this hot food joint. I go in upbeat and she was like an android taking an order. I thought to myself “I’m going to relax about it and respond accordinly” instead of “Oh man…!! Well, next time I’m going to be extra sweet” (and I can be sweet)
Btw congratulations for the new course Ross and you will be back! Maybe after a few years you are going to make the “How to get your dingus into Debbies dong defying sugar donut”. Yes I still remember that from your news letters way back when. I thought it was hilarious! Having said that there is something for that and its called SS