Dear Seeker of Success,
In my previous post, I showed you how to stand up and overcome fear of getting sexual with women by going somewhere and sitting on your ass.
Whether you’ve done so or not, now it’s time to journal about this.
Write a two-page essay, titled
“Women love f***ing. Why shouldn’t I be the one doing it?”
On the first page, list any and all reasons why it shouldn’t be you doing it.
Then on the second page, write down all the reasons why it should be you doing it.
I am not kidding.
These are absurd assignments, but they are designed to, and when done properly will,
Set You Free To Be Sargy
Listen: when people are stuck in fear, injecting a huge poison pill with absurdity into the middle of it, tends to explode the fear apart.
Then, you’ll build a fun learning frame, where it’s, “Let’s go have some fun. See what this girl is like and increase my power, ability and skills.”
(Get it now?)
Do those 2 pages.
Report back in a comment below.
Peace,
RJ
P.S. Just imagine that inward smile of total satisfaction and personal power, knowing you can quickly, smoothly and easily wield your power anywhere to get the women you want hot and ready, wherever you may find yourself…
…with no one watching having the slightest clue about your ability and power!
Is this basically an exercise to eradicate a man’s limiting beliefs?
@Kevin that’s EXACTLY what it is.
Those who chose to get mad at me because I said on Sunday “Fine, go sit on your ass” simply needed to read clear through. This is an incredibly profound practice.
That’s what I thought. Thanks Ross.
After maxing my credit cards and spending over $5000 on programs that do not work I finely getting the lay of the land. Your programs are definitely on my list, but David Shade’s programs have priority. I have purchased three and three to go. Then your programs and become expert on NLP. Erotic Hypnosis is also on the list. I have not decided where I will get this training. Reading “The Game” helped me determine priorities.
@Ralph have you checked out the Meet Women Autopilot videos? How about this too?
These will give you a nice, tall glass of RJ “on the house” while you work your way over here 🙂
Hey Ross, overcoming fear is a great topic, but I found that it is often not only fear, but there are also other processes inside my head & body that prevent me from sarging. For example, I often feel tired just when I am about to start to think about going out, like something is suddenly sucking out all my energy (and not in the ways i prefer 🙂 ). It is like an internal force taking off big parts of my motivation in that moment. My point is this: How do you create a consistent motivation strategy to make sure that you take consistent action? Thank you in advance! Fredy
@Fredy are you an introvert or an extrovert? When you said you lose energy just thinking about going out, where you might encounter social situations, was a bell ringing for me. Being introverted vs. extroverted is mostly how energy is transferred through social interactions. If you’re an introvert, changing how you approach social situations in general (to maximize the introvert energy) might be a place to look.
That said, the rest of the question you ask reads almost like the copy on the webpage for Nail Your Inner Game. You should get this course if you don’t have it yet.
what if the reasons why i should`nt be doing it are heavier than the reasons why i think i should be doing it.
@KC then you need to ask if the “SHOULD” reasons outweigh the “SHOULDN’T” regardless of volume.
Hi Ross, just wanted to say Thank You!
I had been convinced that I wasn’t good enough for some women. But after having done this exercise, I realise I had an anxiety for no substantial reason! And now I’m just left with a load of reasons why I should go for it.
@Nathan
You draw nearer to the gates of the Kingdom of Sarge!
I am not sure if women actually like f***ing most encounters convince men of the opposite.
Their attitudes range from indifferent to disdain nowadays.
Men are much more interested in than they are in us.
Turning a man on can be as simple as flipping a lightswitch. He’s horny and he’s ready to go.
With women, it’s not always a straight leap from “she’s horny” to “it’s on”
Also remember women have feelings ABOUT their feelings.
Women love fucking. They just process differently. That’s nature. And the Speed Seducer understands that and gets laid, while the AFC texts her dick pics and asks her what her favorite position is.