Dear Seeker of Success,
It may come as a surprise to you that OFTEN it is a good idea NOT to sleep with a woman.
(As a great philosopher once said, “Bitches be crazy”.)
Now, I don’t like to generalize and try my best to avoid it.
But as I said in my original book, How To Get The Women You Desire Into Bed, most women are “dinged” in the head in one way or another.
What does this mean?
Simple:
Hold A “Screening” Frame With The Women You Meet
Have standards that you hold yourself to – and be very clear on what you will NOT accept.
Then don’t accept it – no matter how much she maxes out your “10” meter.
(Speaking of which, what the f*ck is a “10” anyway? YOU get to decide. Just saying. And saying again.)
In summation: telling her “no” can be as liberating as saying “yes” to getting undressed.
Here endeth today’s lesson.
Peace,
RJ
P.S. One of the things I’ve learned working with clients privately is the need to prepare students for “back-sliding” – and guide their unconscious to use them as springboards for success instead of stumbling blocks to stuckness.
This is one of the foundations of what we’re discovering together in London on July 30th and 31st.
“most women are “dinged” in the head in one way or another.”
Have you told Hayley Quinn this?
HA HA HA Harry.
Hey Ross I would like to catch up on Speed Seduction and NLP by going to a live training with you. Are you ever going to COME OVER to NJ. It would be amazing to get training with you in NLP (NOT the magick / psychic stuff though because I won’t use it).
@Mike
Miami is only North American seminar in 2016. It’s Speed Seduction and NLP. Not Magick.
Come to Miami.
Paul, what is your take on the quote “you can have whatever you are willing to give up”. In other words when you let go of the attachment of trying to get pussy, the universe rewards you with an avalanche of pussy.
@James
That’s what flows from another metaphor – the difference between involvement and investment.
The chicken is involved in breakfast, because it provided the egg. The pig is involved in breakfast, because it BECAME the bacon.