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    B April 10, 2011, 7:59 pm

    I have a question for whoever wants to respond to this. It would be very much appreciated. I wanted to ask somebody what does it mean when Ross is referring to close a girl. I am assuming it means having sex with her but is that always the end game one needs to have with the girl? I only ask because I am somebody with Christian values and maybe that keeps me from having a successful seduction because I get stuck with the dating mind set and focusing too much on intimacy. It is just difficult for me to practice speed seduction with sex as the end game because I want to find somebody who I can be committed to for the long term. It is just difficult to do that when I feel to close the girl means to have sex with her right away. You know what I mean?

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    Marc April 10, 2011, 8:48 pm

    Ross,

    “Are you are trying to “date” her; to shove Speed Seduction® into the dating frame? That triggers both her “check list” for a guy and her own fears about being labeled a slut, etc.”

    What kind of activities can you do with a woman that will keep you out of the dating frame? You have talked about meeting at a coffee shop. My understanding is that if you invite her for coffee at a cafe that would considered a “date.” Could you provide some clarification on your definition of a “date”, i.e. is it something that you spend a lot of money on for?

    Is the key to plan activities independent of her and then invite her to tag along with you? In this case you were already going to event x, instead of planning an event specifically for her.

    What are your top 3 non-date activities for the women who are interested and attracted but for whatever reason you were only able to get their phone number?

    Your thoughts on this will be greatly appreciated.

    Thanks,

    Marc

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      Ross Jeffries April 18, 2011, 10:32 am

      @Marc Your question shows your thinking is WAYY off base. It isn’t about “activities” you do together, but how your language and vibe opens up the sexual places in her mind and body. Then the activities don’t matter. You are way too focused on behaviors rather than places in the mind so you are not getting, until now, the PRIME understanding of SS: capture and lead her imagination and emotions FIRST and then the logistical details become far less important.

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    versier tips April 11, 2011, 2:35 am

    Awesome men! if you keep giving me tips like this its just a matter off time my lips or my **** will fall off because of overuse..

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    Ritzeman. April 11, 2011, 7:18 am

    If a woman leans away when you try to kiss her is because she doesn’t deserve it. The best thing you can do
    is looking for another one and forget that bitch.
    There is no reason to waste your time with someone, when there is a lot of others waiting to have some fun without fooling you.

    Ross, I’m agree with you about what you say but at some point a woman need to be put on her place by a man. And if she doesn’t like it, who cares?

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    pedros April 11, 2011, 12:22 pm

    Vertaling van het Nederlands in het Engels

    heey ross I wanted to thank you for the many tips that you give.this programa really is realy ammazing, I try as much as possible, but first to apply the personal aspect, I unfortunately do not dare to speak to women but that is going to happen soon,i want to ask you question i have right now a email contact with a women
    and got her through a detour asked question if she want to go out but she responded without saying no or yes how should I deal with this so she wil say yes
    Greetings pedro

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    Tom April 12, 2011, 6:01 pm

    B,
    With SS, we’re trying to circumvent the dating process cause it has a tendency to bring a lot of negatives such as a woman’s “checklist” as mentioned in marc’s post. All in all, in my opinion, dating is a lot like a job interview. You can use SS for that “one” special girl, if you want. It doesn’t always have to end with sex before you tie the knot.
    Just structure an opportunity to meet you for coffee, NOT a typical dinner date. If your not quite sure about that then either get Ross’s Speed Seduction BHSC 3.0, if you don’t already have it or sign up for his coaching program. Thats my advice to you.

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    Almac April 15, 2011, 10:29 pm

    Hey B,

    Speaking from experience: I’m not the type that wants to bed a girl right away either, but it’s important to get her thinking of you as a sexually appealing person from the get go. If she starts off thinking of you as non tempting but nice long term relationship material, or even worse as a friend, it’s impossible to change to exciting. I know because I’ve always inspired that nicefriendlongtermbutnotnow attitude. It leads nowhere unless you enjoy seeing your “”friend” meet exciting men that she confides in you about. I don’t know how to avoid getting into that space, that’s the reason why I visit sites like this.

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      Ross Jeffries April 18, 2011, 10:30 am

      In any case, we can’t know if she is “long term” material until after we’ve seen her in many different situations, including stressful ones So it’s smart to create the sexual attraction anyway, as soon as possible and then WE stay in the driver’s seat.

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