Dear Seeker of Success,
One of my great students who saw Speed Seduction® The New Code: The Next Generation asked my thoughts on how much he would have to practice each week in order to internalize the language patterns in the collection I share inside the course within, say, the first month.
First of all: how can I say how many hours you need to practice?
It depends first of all on how efficiently you practice.
If you practice inefficiently, you can practice 40 hours and get nowhere.
Let’s Think….Carpentry.
Let’s say you want to hammer in a nail. If I have a nail and I tell you to hammer in the nail but I give you a screwdriver, you’ll work your ass off to get the nail in but you’ll just burn wasted energy.
The important thing is to appropriately utilize your energy.
Secondly, how do you define practice? Do you mean just rehearsing language patterns in the mirror or going out and playing with them with women?
Your use of the word “practice” could be playing a role here, too.
See, there’s practice, and then there’s rehearsal. Two different things…
- Rehearsal is when you talk to yourself in front of the mirror. It’s all good stuff, but practice is something different.
- Practice is when you get out there and use it.
Rather than attempt to devour the entire course all at once, it’s more important in the early stage that you take one thing you rehearse and practice it in the field 10 times, than it is to memorize 10 things and practice them in the field once or only practice one of them once.
Third: one of the things that makes a big difference between guys who really get the skills and guys who don’t is to keep a seduction journal. It doesn’t matter if it takes you more time. You must remain focused and keep your attention on things.
Keeping a seduction journal organizes your thoughts so you can chart your progress and capture lessons learned along the way.
Overall it’s not about how much time you put in but how efficiently you expend your energy.
Rehearsal, practice, journaling.
Peace,
RJ
P.S. The best thing about the “Next Generation” collection? It’s a 100% instant-access online course. It’s there 24/7/365.
And, of course, the dozens of word-for-word patterns included!
Once you’ve mastered one or two patterns or skills, you can go back and select a couple more to master.
Then repeat. Refer back if needed.
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Speaking of keeping a journal, it’s not enough just to write stuff down and forget about it. I’ve established that habit, now I’m slowing down and actually learning from my observations.
Back in the computer programming day we had the Common Object Model. Every object starts with the IUnknown interface which has three methods: addRef(), queryInterface() and release(). Introductions come first. Unused objects are returned to the heap. And the order in which an interface is requested is important because different interfaces may implement similar methods with completely different meanings.
Zarathud … Hi… How do you learn from the journalism rather than just writing each day? This is something I could use advise with. If I May? Thanks.
You know, if you request the IFuckBuddy interface and she returns the ICreepShield interface, you might call the same methods and get drastically different return values and it may be that the IFuckBuddy interface is only available when calling queryInterface() from the INormalGuy interface. If you query it directly from IUnknown, you end up with the other one.
And speaking of interface mappings, if she requests the IGetLaid interface and you habitually return the IGoodBoyfriend interface, well, you know where this is going…
Hello Everybody…
Dr Daniel Levitin is the researcher behind the amount of practice it takes to achieve world class expert status in whatever field your interested in, this is something I could keep all to myself but I wont …………So………..Here We Go:
…ten thousand hours of practice is required to achieve the level of mastery associated with being a world class expert – in anything. In study after study, from an idiot to a master criminal, composer, basketball player, …Anything.
Ten Thousand Hours is the equivalent to roughly three hours per day, or twenty hours per week, of practice over ten years……It seems the brain takes this long to assimilate all that it needs to know to achieve true mastery.
If this seems like a big smack in the chops to you, then do what the true master boxers do…..go with it and take out the blow….
You can say /I’ve potentially just made a heap of masters in 4 paragraphs….This is why i’m the worlds best man and thrown a lifetime of money making away to help guys…..Actually..No…Ross Jeffries did that…And now I hear there’s some other guy….hmmmmmm…Paul…Something or other..anyway..they both say all the other pickup artists are pushing bullshit around like dung beatles…So get the techniques that will help you be able to learn successfully with women from these geezeerzz..And..Just get out there ya lazy..sunna..va…Bitch…
I’m just off to Order “Nail your inner Game” Right now…
TBWL x
@Rus – enjoy Nail Your Inner Game. Let us know how it works out for you.
Wellllll….Ohhh…Go Oh Then…He he..
…I can’t bloody believe it mate…
I met the hottest woman you have ever seen in your …Life… And she claims she knows the top pick up artists and knows Myzzzz…….Myyzzzz….Myyyssssssss…T..T..TTT..ERY… I’m not sure what that means….but any way ….Your stuff works like a …I can’t swear but…Like a dream…. …And I even popped her head … I havn’t yet been able to …Lets say…’Give a dog a Bone’… But She asked me to sleep with her, to meet with her and texts me all the time and apologizes to things I didn’t even realise I was pissed off about…..<<<<This is just the tip of the ice burg fella's…
…Yeah….'Nail you Inner Game' went Ok /…I suppose…pffftt…he he hee
rus :o) ..X.. Thanks Paul, Ross
@Rus,
Do tell me everything. C’mon..share right here on the blog what you did, etc.
That’s none of your business …OK… well … first of all .. choosing the correct beautiful lady is paramount. Bear in mine…she had just left her borefriend … for some reason…
I don’t make a plan to destroy relationships ..
I am pleasing and non harmful…and responsible……..
First of all I made mistakes by thinking with my penis.. and doing pattern after pattern with her…so I backed up and shut her down (left her for a while) then came back as friends … ‘ using ‘buddy to bed mate’ ..and getting extremely good strong responses …then in come ‘NYIG’…. This helps you to pin point with laser like trapazoidal accuracy how to learn how to function effectively .. The more It’s taken away the more she wants more…..so while she fractionates I get to sarge and get a slice with other women… It’s not all about getting banged…more like transmutation to allow everyone to benefit with your best person you are becoming every day more and more regardless of circumstances O:-) …I have never been so popular up until now. Aparently..I’m amazing…she is way in…O:-)
Thanks for approving my comments.
I just did a week long series magical self type exercises focused on social skills or presence might be a better term because I’ve talked to professionals who say I have great presentation, but something still wasn’t working for me.
For one week I focused on a different social energy each day and the results have been astounding!
I share this because I’ve kept in touch with a couple of guys from a previous seminar and I think we’ve all come to the point of, “fuck language patterns, fuck energy work” all this is fine, but at some point there is a huge context for having a normal everyday conversation with a woman. That isn’t enough and it isn’t always necessary to get laid, but realistically, some of us who have been really stuck have recognized when it’s time to put seduction fantasies aside for a while and focus more on having a life.
I know there is danger in getting caught up in diagnostics, but equally, a map is only useful if you know where you are in relation to it and how to orient it to your surroundings and of course where you want to go and if where you want to go is actually on the map or only in a porno.
@Zara,
Please, as a personal favor, share what you did. Which energies did you play with and what was your:
1. Private preparation
2. Actual practice in the field
3. Your method for noting/logging results?
And I deeply agree: some students need work on feeling grounded and comfortable in their body and noticing responses; turning on their grounding AND their “mirror” neurons before they get into language patterns.
Others already have this skill and don’t need it.
RJ
” I walk on water in my dreams. I walk on water in my dreams”.
Wow she has an industrial rotary hammer and no steel toe boots on. I am citing you Mr. Jeffries for an OSHA violation!!!
@Harry
That’s what SHE said.