Dear Seeker of Success,
There are some scenarios that can (seemingly) put the kibosh on Sarging…
…even if you are skilled at approaching a group of women, approaching a group of people, or have made approaching women as they go about life part of who you are and what you do.
You’re at a wedding reception.
Every woman except one is there with her husband (not borefriend – not “has-been-d” – devoted, loving, husband!)
The only one who isn’t, she’s 7 months pregnant, texting her husband who couldn’t get off work, brushing off the people in the room right now.
Maybe you live in a small town with only one or two places to hang out (usually bars), full of the same people you couldn’t stand back in high school, either.
Even if (or perhaps because) you’ve scored with several of the “regular” women, for reasons that, up until now, you haven’t quite fathomed, that empty well has now left your bone dry.
My entrepreneur students go to events and seminars (hot spots for hot women) yet report challenges connecting with women on a Sargy level.
Schedules run late.
Presenters run overtime with their pitchfests and it cuts into lunch hour and the networking reception – forbid presenters actually being told to stick to schedule and lose their chance to empty your wallet!
When session FINALLY ends, people beeline to their cell phones to check in with home/work/life before you can get in a word.
Normally I’d call bullshit on all of it.
Normally I’d tell you to get off your “can’t do it” ass and go out there and DO IT.
Actually,
I AM Calling Bullshit.
I AM Telling You That.
Rather than sit and make excuses…GO for it…down the path of least Sargy resistance.
Got the small town blues?
May I suggest that you locate the nearest large town/city near you. Book a cheap room somewhere. Then go to venues there and practice. Give yourself a change from that small-town dive.
Path of least resistance, guys.
In the city, hit the larger hotels where they do weddings/parties/conventions. Lots of puss eager to get rammed!
There for a seminar?
Usually there will be 3 or 4 seminars happening at the same hotel or convention center at the same time.
Lots of women milling in the hall, at the bar, all around.
Here in San Diego, which is Seminar Central for most of the West Coast, there are a couple dozen hotels within walking distance or a 2-minute Uber ride of each other where on any given day there will be 3 or 4 seminars going on at EACH hotel.
That’s a LOT of women, many of them now in a place where nobody knows them and they can just totally let go.
The dry-desert wedding reception you’re at might be right next door to the other wedding reception…. where 25 single women are rushing toward the bouquet at this very moment.
Their gal-pal just got hitched and they’re wondering when THEY will encounter a “great guy.”
Ummmm….Paging…YOU!!!
Let me close this lesson with an opener you can adapt as needed:
Walk up to a woman and say,
“Hi, I’m (new to town / from out of town / attending one of these for the very first time), so I’m just saying hello to all the more gorgeous women.”
Note the implied compliment.
The women are waiting. Now what in the name of Holly’s hot-sexy halter-top are you waiting FOR?
Peace,
RJ
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