Dear Speed Seduction® Students And Fans,
Here are a few worn-out, wasted, and woe-begone cliches you’ve probably heard before.
“Men and women must be in love before they have sex.” “Women will most likely have sex on the third date, but will not decide if they love him for another 6 months, because they believe love takes time.” (Is this why the “third date” is assigned so much importance?)
As you continue to master your girl-getting game and achieve more and more tight trim triumph… as you peel away the layers of doubt and beliefs that haven’t served you… please get this; discovering your false and limiting beliefs ARE GAINS!!!
As you see what actually works with women in the world, you cannot help having your old beliefs challenged and changed. As you change and challenge your old beliefs, you cannot help but make progress in the field.
This is what makes Speed Seduction® unique and special: it requires you deeply re-examine how you think about women, what attracts them, and indeed, what “attraction”, “love” “desire” really are, as PROCESSES with a structure, sequence, flow, movement etc.
Well, my belief is that you can NOT have a truly “loving” relationship WITHOUT sex. So there.
Forget about such stupid generalities as the “all important third date” and other calls to mastur-wait-ion. Those who preach these ideas base them on THEIR limits. Just because THEY need to go on “dates” and follow the “rules” to get the chick in bed, YOU should too. That’s how they’d have it.
I’ve had women “fall in love” with me in 20 minutes. Some never do.
Look, the real issue is: will doing as OTHERS say help YOU go where you need to?
What is the process – the methodology – by which YOU will discover what works and what is true? Do you really need written reassurances or can you move through some uncertainty with a determination to FIND OUT FOR YOURSELF WHAT WORKS?
Do you see my point? The real value is asking a better question than “when will women have sex or fall in love?”
The better question is, “How do YOU find out what is true and real, for yourself? And how do you handle the uncertainty of looking? Can you convert into excitement, curiosity, playful determination?”
More and more I am convinced that my job as a master teacher is NOT to answer the question the student asks. 70% of the time it is redirecting the student to ask the much more useful question or questions that they aren’t even thinking to ask.
Peace and piece,
RJ
P.S. You can get some progress just by mindless imitation; but deep change and huge sastisfaction / suck-sex requires you change the filters and beliefs through which you address the world of women. The best way to do this is twofold – reprogram the belief mentally and through ritual. Explore my Nail Your Inner Game and Magick/Psychic Influence courses.
There are some “gurus” who said and repeat men are weaker than women, and as men could fall in love almost instantly with a woman, she needs at least six months of dating to move you into “love” category. I think your take is a good “shaking” of the mind to see things in a new way, and worth to try it.
“my job as a master teacher is NOT to answer the question the student asks. 70% of the time it is redirecting the student to ask the much more useful question or questions that they aren’t even thinking to ask.”
I’ve actually read something about that, most people when they have a problem can’t see the real reason behind what is causing it, they need to see the problem from another perspective.
G’day Ross,
Well mate I have been an avid reader of your emails and the effect has been to motivate me to read. What other say is usually (but not always) bullshit when it come to having sex with women.
What you advance is capturing and leading a woman by her imagination – to give her the feeling s that she longs for.
Fall in love with you in 20 minutes – sounds a lot like attention capture using the theory of incongruity.
Could you explains this a bit more and it use in -not only seduction but also in everyday life.
A boy says to his dad: Mommy rang over my bike. The father looks at his son and says: how many times have I told you not to leave your bike on the porch when your mother is driving the car.
Thanks a lot mate you have changed the way that I think and my life is the better for it.
See Ya
Grey
That was powerful words of wisdom, only comes from a true master!
As it will go down in history, Ross Jeffries is the Father of Modern Seduction AND I am so proud that I am one of his students.
For this topic, love and sex is always a mix. The greatest love stories are the ones with the most passionate sex like Titanic and others because it sends you both to the ultimate pleasure of life. Master your inner game and explore LIFE AND write your own great story. Because of Sensei Ross, I am going to start mine… My Orange Sky Love Story.
Long live Speed Seduction!
-Master Pabling
Many, many thanks Ross. You always inspire and motivate me to not only re-evaluate where i am with women, but also with my thoughts, feelings which usually get in the way- keeping me stuck- and what i must do to move forward for my success with women!
I think most people think ‘love’ is not an incredible, physiological experience that lights up a person’s neurology. Instead, they think it’s an altruistic, feeling of pity and the roles and responsibilities of relationships.
My take: nothing lasts forever.. including love (whatever one’s definition is of it). So, I say if you like the chick, bang each other and enjoy and love each other for the time you share in that intimate and immediate encounter. Love isn’t eternal like Plato would have us think; neither is any earthly love not ideal. Earthly love, right now, is the only true form of love.
* I think most people think ‘love’ is not an incredible, physiological experience that lights up a person’s neurology *in the moment.
“neither is any earthly love not ideal.” – (i.e. earthly love IS ideal; e.g. in the flesh, lust, passion, admiration, etc.. as opposed to altruistic, pity, non-physical, loss of desire, etc.. 😉
G’day Ross,
On NYE I went out to have a good time and to meet up with friends after the party for coffee, sweets and good discussions until they kick us out. And by intent for the evening was to invest in the process of seduction. I found that I walk away from sex – as the commercial goes the look on her face was priceless when she realised that it was not going to happen.
One of the ways that Ross has changed me is that I now choose not to have sex (sometimes) because his stuff works and I know now that I have choice. And if the person who you choose cannot be seduced then as Ross indicates many time in various comments – so you thing she is the only woman on the planet – be interested in the girl but invest in the process.
Ross has taught me one thing that all women want – women want to be desired.
See Ya
Grey
Greatly written!