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    Roman July 2, 2009, 2:21 pm

    That the finest aproach

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    Angel July 3, 2009, 6:20 pm

    I've used a variation of this opener successfully to open a moving HB 8.5 close to a bus/trolley transit center. She was walking away from me so I just walked up until I was next to her and walking at her speed, looked over to her then said “Excuse me, forgive the interruption, it's just that I wanted to compliment you… (pause) I think you look… (paused – smile) absolutely breathtaking and that outfit looks gorgeous on you (compliment her style choices since she obviously put a lot of time into looking good that day) This worked and soon I was walking along talking with her like old friends while guys around us were looking on in disbelief. Based on my own field use I know that RJ's advice works!

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    Mithra July 4, 2009, 1:46 am

    More awesome stuff from the master.

    However, as is my nature, I must challenge.

    I have NEVER found any real benefit from this “false time constraint” nonsense. Of course, one has to be respectful of what your target is focused on in the moment, but saying, “Oh I really have to go…” is just poppycock.

    Respect her time. Respect her attention. But don't make excuses for your attraction to her.

    That's it.

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