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Dear Speed Seduction(R) Students,
Sometimes, the best approach with women is the direct approach. And sometimes, when you run out of things to say, you need a “fall back” line that just doesn’t fail.
In this video, I reveal that line. It speaks the truth in a simple, direct, non-threatening and honest way that usually has a very strongly positive impact.
Why?
Well, when most men go to meet women, they try to hide their intent, or they bludgeon women with that intent.
As an example of the latter, my Swedish sweetie, Pernilla, got hit on a lot when she was out here in LA, and the guys almost always just ran up to her and asked her out, without any introductory conversation at all.
Talk about clueless.
But I really like this opener because it comes across as something other than a pick up line. And remember, pick up lines usually don’t work because they are predictable, trite, boring or even offensive.
But this one really rocks it. You will successfully meet women with this direct, can’t miss opener.
Please watch, and comment below.
Peace and piece,
RJ
P.S. Enrollment is now open for my London Seminar, this August. Details are here.
P.P.S. For those of you who want to know if I teach “direct game” well, here is your answer.
That the finest aproach
I've used a variation of this opener successfully to open a moving HB 8.5 close to a bus/trolley transit center. She was walking away from me so I just walked up until I was next to her and walking at her speed, looked over to her then said “Excuse me, forgive the interruption, it's just that I wanted to compliment you… (pause) I think you look… (paused – smile) absolutely breathtaking and that outfit looks gorgeous on you (compliment her style choices since she obviously put a lot of time into looking good that day) This worked and soon I was walking along talking with her like old friends while guys around us were looking on in disbelief. Based on my own field use I know that RJ's advice works!
More awesome stuff from the master.
However, as is my nature, I must challenge.
I have NEVER found any real benefit from this “false time constraint” nonsense. Of course, one has to be respectful of what your target is focused on in the moment, but saying, “Oh I really have to go…” is just poppycock.
Respect her time. Respect her attention. But don't make excuses for your attraction to her.
That's it.