Dear Seeker of Success,
I’m not about endless gabbing on the phone – or drawn-out textual relations – with women.
I’m for getting her in person, in front of me.
That said, many of my students find it helpful, when building their skills with language and patterns, practicing on the phone so they can refer to the script until it feels more natural.
Again, not really my recommendation,
But It Works For Some…
How Can I Argue?
Recently, a student shared with me the work he was doing to practice tonality in the way he used Speed Seduction® language patterns with women.
So he pulled out his Black Book Of Babeliciousness and called up a woman he used to speak to.
It was just an ordinary, regular, casual conversation.
But he did some of the patterns, and her reaction was amazing.
He reports he could almost feel a different part of her opening up during the conversation.
She said there was something different about him – she couldn’t quite put her finger on it, but it made her feel different.
So far so good?
Now he wanted to know how to take things to the next level – memorizing the patterns and internalizing them.
As I’ve said many times:
Patterns Are So Much More Than
Just Memorized Speeches
Patterns take many forms.
I define a pattern as:
Any communication that opens up the part of a woman’s mind that’s more suggestible and more right-brained, anything that directs a flow of energy through her body that’s teasing or pleasurable to her, and anything that evokes her own imagery for being sexual or connected to people.
A pattern is also also anything that opens up her curiosity about you.
It’s anything you do with your energy or your hands that accelerates the interaction.
As far as the longer memorized patterns like Discovery Channel, Blow Job, or Airplane Finger Fun, the first thing to do is get in the right state, being grounded in your feet and breathing from a soft belly.
Much of what I teach lately is about grounding into your male energy and breathing from the belly.
Next, understand what the essential theme of the pattern is.
What’s The Pattern Really About?
Then go through the pattern and underline the suggestions and commands.
For example, if you were going to do Incredible Connection, you would underline, “Feel that amazing connection.”
Underline the suggestions and commands and repeat those out loud several times.
Those are the parts that matter.
Understand what the theme of the pattern is and at what point the pattern involves body sensations and feelings.
See how this starts to come together?
Peace,
RJ
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This is amazinginly diffrent approach to thinking in general. Goodjob Paul. still need to understand more though buh am adventurous and i think this journey would be fun.
The Curiosity Code, which we will share at the London seminar, takes this to a whole new level. Can you make it?
Hi Ross!
I’m very new to this and i would like to come meet you or in a seminar but the London is not working out for me. How can i contact you otherwise?
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From my recent conversations with other SSers, i gather that a main obstacle is the Skillful Description part that comes right after mentioning the state/process/experience section of the pattern.
How do you speak in a detailed way that is also non-specific? one SSer told me to that i should either read a lot of romance novels, or go to a N.L.P course to study milton-models otherwise i will “mis-match her experience” if i just make up the description and it will not work
We’ll cover this at the London Seminar. If you can’t make it, buy the Final Frontier course, which delves deep.
I don’t get when you are suppose to use a pattern or when you can feel the time is right. Sorry to sound like a kid but I just don’t get when or know when you can see the opportunity. Do you need to gain her trust first? when she has your attention? Could you show an approach to finish roadmap as I am lost to know what to say or do or when. I feel like I am lost when talking to girls.
I’ve said many times “I don’t go places to Sarge, I Sarge when I go places.”
Meeting women must become part of what you do everyday, and not an “event”.
There is no specific step-by-step because women are fluid, chaotic beings with their own unique personalities and way of approaching the world.
Calibration is key.
The more you practice, the better you get at calibration.
That said, you are on the right track as far as groundwork to work on and indicators to seek out.
After re-watching part 3 of language pattern introduction, I only just noticed I’d overlooked body sensations. I’ve got a bunch of patterns I’ve constructed but now I’ve got to figure out how to add appropriate body sensations to them and then relearn those! Do they need to be stacked three times also? I can only reallly think of breathing, heart rate and warm flowing feelings. Overwhelmed and exhausted. Any hints on how to incorporate these?
We will cover some of this in the upcoming “Final Frontier” course.