Dear Seeker of Success,
As I shared yesterday, part of the problem is not anxiety as much as it is an overabundance of excitement going through the circuits. That’s number one.
The second thing I think is going on with approach anxiety is an internal conflict between two commands that you’re putting into the system.
Let’s think of this in terms of cybernetics.
I don’t know if you ever had a remote control truck as a kid.
There is a little joystick you use to steer it. It can only take so many control methods.
You can make it go forward.
You can make it go backward.
You can make it turn left.
You can make it turn right.
You can slow it down, speed it up, or stop it and turn it off.
Sometimes You Can Push Two Buttons On
The Remote And Make It Fight Itself
With approach anxiety, you have two conflicting commands at the same time.
One command is that you want to talk to the woman. You want to move forward and talk to her.
The second command is to stand still until you’re absolutely sure you’ll do it perfectly before you even open your mouth.
In effect, you’re giving two conflicting commands to your system at the same time.
In any cybernetic system, if you give two opposing commands of equal strength, they’ll cancel each other out and
The System Will Just Shake And Sputter
Until You Burn Out The Motor
To summarize, there are two elements to approach anxiety we’ve discussed so far.
The first is that there is just too much sexual excitement.
The second element is that there are these two conflicting desires taking place at the same time.
In order to resolve that conflict, most guys make a few bad choices.
(We’ll discuss those bad choices on Friday.)
Peace,
RJ
P.S. I’m such a tease, I know. You like it.
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