Dear Seeker of Success,
Yesterday, in the “Ask Me Anything” call for my Elite Mastermind and Coaching program, a student came up with an interesting question.
Here’s the scoop:
He said that at times, when he went out to meet women, he would feel great discomfort and when he did, he would freeze.
I pointed out two things that really got him back in action.
Here they are:
- Feeling discomfort gives you no information about what is going to happen in the outside world or how the woman will react. It is only a signal about your own neurology. There is no data in feeling nervous with an activity that isn’t actually dangerous. (Hey-you are talking to a woman, not kicking a bear in the nuts)
- If you are feeling discomfort, the worst thing you could do is to try to talk your way out of it. Talking is a subtle form of resistance, and resisting a physiological sensation only causes it to grow worse, like kinking a garden hose that just builds up the water pressure.
What was my solution?
I told him to just allow the discomfort to be there and……
Let His Feet Start Talking Before His Mouth!
There’s an old samurai saying that translates into “leap into action”.
You gotta leap for you get laid.
Peace,
RJ
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