Dear Seeker of Success,,
When you don’t need to get laid, then you start getting laid a lot.
I call this the Paradox of Poon.
The thing about paradoxes is this…
Certain things are a paradox on one level until you change the frame.
Then you see the real power in how it works.
In this Paradox of Poon, there’s power, as you’re about to see.
This Explains Why Women Can Be
Such “Cockteases” At Times
A student of mine gave me a Sarge report. He thought he had it in the bag with this chick. THIS close to the Mattress Mambo. She was flirting with him, pretty much the initiator in this scenario.
Just when he was about to get her back to his place, she suddenly said “Hey this is great. You’re fun to hang out with and I want to do it again. Can you give me your number and I’ll call you?”
He told her no and walked away, thinking “What a cocktease.”
Here’s what I told him:
She doesn’t want to be with him. She wants the excitement of looking forward to being with him, but she doesn’t actually want the being with him.
Thus the change in her approach, the moment things seemed to be moving toward his apartment, she shut it down.
I’d bet a buck she likes the excitement of having a guy wanting to go out with her, but she doesn’t really want to spend time with anybody.
She just likes the potential of, “I could get attention from this guy. Look at that over there. I could spend this $100, but I also like the fact that it’s in my pocket and I can feel it there.”
Same Thing Applies For Guys,
When You Come To Think Of It
A lot of guys don’t really want to get with women. I know, fancy that huh?
They just like the excitement of looking forward to being with a woman.
“Wow! I can’t wait to call her tomorrow. This is going to be so great when we finally hook up.”
That’s a blind spot, too.
It Happens This Way When You
Want To Get Laid So Bad
If your motivation is to have the excitement of looking forward to something, then as soon as you get it, your enthusiasm goes away.
Your unconscious will always push it away so you get what you want, which is the excitement of looking forward to it, rather than having the actual thing.
It’s a process without outcome. It’s sort of the flip side of women who want the attention from guys, as I explaned above.
This, my friend, is the Paradox of Poon.
Peace,
RJ
P.S. Inside Rapid and Total Success with Women, will discover how to use the four Seduction Conversation Formats to stack suggestions and create maximum receptivity.
Having this in your repertoire means you won’t have to “want” laid so much, meaning you won’t give her (or yourself) that vibe anymore. And thus you shall overcome the Paradox of Poon.
