Dear Speed Seduction® Students and Fans,
Last week here on my blog, I explained why it’s so important to stop c@&k-blocking yourself and denying yourself the opportunity to experience joy and pleasure with women because you think you’re worried she might think you’re more “not” than “hot.”
I received an e-mail from a fan who read my post and told me his dilemma. He’s 31 years old, has never gotten laid and doubts he ever will. He and has a sense of worthlesness and insecurity that he’s never “shaken” since he was a teenager who got picked on a lot in high school.
Because he got laughed at by the pretty girls he was attracted to back then, he’s still “stuck” in a pattern of being unable to approach women due to his sense that “relationships are meant for other people, not me.”
For him, it’s not about whether he’s good looking enough, it’s about what happened in his past that trips him up today.
Reach Out And Take The Key That Sets You Free
From Your Life-Sentence Of Involuntary Celibacy
I don’t know this guy’s life story, but I’d wager a dollar that his real issue is NOT where the “block” started but how, up until now, he’s been entangled in it and FEEDING it and REAFFIRMING IT.
Let me re-frame the conversation: Imagine if all of the worthlessness and insecurity he’s ever felt or experienced could be converted/refined/recycled into PURE energy for his peace of mind, balance, informed enthusiasm, and vision of the man he has become already in other areas of his life?
What if he could learn, from a place of clear eyes and new vision, without the old filters and responses (those memories of the past) standing in the way and “jumping in his line of sight” every time he “swallows hard” and “goes for broke” and FINALLY takes a “shot” at approaching a woman?
Listen: it’s not always about what you have, but rather what you do with it, that can make all the difference.
Peace and piece,
RJ
P.S. Would you like to learn about the best, most systematic, fool proof, breakthrough system for untangling the confusion and “re-infection” that keeps guys involuntarily stuck entirely based on “the past”, that ANYONE can use? I know you do.
All of this (and much more) is in my Nail Your Inner Game Course.
