Dear Speed Seduction® Student,
Every so often I find it necessary to say nay to the naysayers.
Today, I must say nay to those who think that when you do seduction patterns and use pattern language, it will cause women to get weirded out.
Or similarly, they think it’s silly, like the “Jamaica” line which they swear they heard in grade school.
Look: patterns and pattern language are neither weird nor silly, when you have the whole picture.
A few thoughts…
First, it’s necessary to properly define our terms.
What are “patterns”?
What do you mean “do” patterns?
What is your attitude when you “do” patterns?
Are you helping her see a new direction?
Or, are you inflicting something?
Do you feel you are committing some minor crime like pick pocketing or stealing someone’s watch?
These are all important things to consider.
This is why it’s VERY important to clean up your energy before you go sarging.
What Do Language Patterns Mean?
Look, patterns, whatever that may mean, are designed to:
- Gather information about what moves a woman. Get informational as well as EMOTIONAL leverage into her world.
- Prime the “emotional pump” to get the parts of her mind that contain those responses opened up and receptive to you.
- Lead and entrain her imagination/emotions/body feelings.
- Enable you to screen who is available, who is worth dealing with, etc. etc.
Now, that is what “patterns” are designed to do.
Be sure to join us tomorrow for Part 2, where I will delve deeper into patterns – including more of how patterns help you in the seduction process.
Peace and piece,
RJ
P.S. The real genius of the Speed Seduction® 3.0 system isn’t just the suggestive language – it’s also the clever way in which it’s structured to seem like a perfectly ordinary conversation!
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I’ve had a woman/women say she can’t take me seriously when I talk like that…
I remember the Eighty percent rule … I’m not going to let that one response allow me to sink into negativity that has no place in seduction success, just learn she is someone who is just not open to fantastic experiences and it’s only her that will lose out of something great if she doesn’t take this oppertunity to learn with me, so looking forward to part Two…
TTFN
TBWL x
RJ@
As you’ve said, the state behind techniques are at least as important as the techniques themselves. Yet patterns ARE a NEW DIRECTION, if done correctly. You can use patterns and stories to take her places she’s never been before, and they become a thing in themselves.
Suppose you have an experienced HB that you intuit is a bit of a “player” herself. She’s not into connections, as she doesn’t want some guy bothering her constantly or becoming her satellite. She’s sensuous, and is looking for fun and excitement. You barely need to run patterns on her, and usually just go kino on here early with touching, caresses, and kissing happening fast. But she’s good, has intense sexual energy, beyond the usual, and she’s very good in bed, so maybe you would like to keep her a while. Obviously, you can’t be possessive, and you shouldn’t be anyway. You can use patterns and stories to give her unusual feelings and take her on new adventures while just talking. New directions and learning new fun, playful, exciting twists and turns to things becomes a pattern in itself.
The four noble truths by HH Dalai Lama is wonderful to keep a positive intent
http://www.dalailama.com/webcasts/post/2-the-four-noble-truths
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