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    Bullet April 19, 2011, 11:58 pm

    Hi RJ

    Thanks a million for this blog.

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    Rheo April 24, 2011, 12:31 am

    This girl that I was sleeping with left the country. Now she takes forever to return emails. She says that she is my girlfriend. I also gave my word to her that as long as I was with her I wouldn’t see other women. But now I feel terrible about it as I’m not meeting any new women, I don’t know if she is really my girlfriend. She actually says that we don’t have to do anything to “prove” to each other that we love each other. She even hinted about marrying saying something like, Ïf we ever get married…..” The chink in my armour is not hearing from her for long periods. The suspense gives way to fear. She says there is nothing so frantic and urgent and don’t worry. But she knows that this is my weakness, and she is sure rattling me there. But I have held my own. I have called her bluff on every occasion she tested me, the latest being the time when i called her, she said hello and then hung up. When i left her a message on the phone saying that it wasn’t cool that she “hung up on me”, she emails me asking what i mean. So I explained it just as a matter of fact. I kept the vibe and tone of the email friendly and instead of directly accusing her of “hanging up”, I just put it across like, “Well what I mean is that the last time i called you I heard you say hello, and then the line snapped, and when I called again I get the answering machine”. I hope she gets the drift. But she hasn’t replied. Maybe she is testing, waiting to see at what point the suspense will break me and then I will go running to her and ask her why she hasn’t been writing me (Did this two times already, and although her response was nice its still weakness on my part, and thats not sexy) In fact at one point I just couldn’t help it! I actually shed tears in front of her. But she was quite nurturing about it, even kissed my tears and everything but later told me about a boyfriend she once had who’d cry for everything and that wasn’t sexy. I knew it was a lost battle so I kept quiet, accepting of my weakness. She even told me that she really wants to make this work but doesn’t know if I could handle a girl like her. So gentlemen, thats my story.

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