Dear Speed Seduction® Student
It’s been said that “attitude” determines your “altitude”. In other words, the way you THINK about yourself and a subject will be as important as what you DO.
Well, let’s not knock doing the right thing. Effective action, especially with women, is REQUIRED.
However, your attitude is a big part of how attractive women will find you. You can consider your attitude to be like the conductive medium through which the electricity of your BEHAVIOR will flow.
If we take electric current and try to pass it through:
a. A sheet of cardboard
b. A sheet of copper foil
which will conduct the current best? Of course, you don’t need to be a physics major to answer: the copper foil.
Just so, your attitude with WOMEN will determine just how well your “moves” are received. Doesn’t that make sense?
With that in mind I give you:
POWER ATTITUDES For Ultimate Success
With The Women You Truly Desire
1) Being with me is the best possible choice any woman can make.
Now, can you prove that this is true? No, of course not. It isn’t a factual statement about an objective truth; it’s a position you choose to come from.
Now, never verbalize this attitude, for Christ sake. Don’t get right in a woman’s face and say, “being with me is the best choice you can make, baby”. But show it in how you act.
2) I consistently display the willingness to walk away.
This is one MOST “chumps” miss. You see, if a woman doesn’t get, somewhere in her mind, that she could POSSIBLY do something to lose you, she will never really feel deep passion for you.
If you are ALWAYS there for her, no matter what, then in the back of her mind, she will de-value you, to a greater or lesser degree. Somewhere, somehow, in the back of her mind (or even the front) she must realize that she COULD one day lose you!
Because You’ve Come This Far,
You Already Have Power
With just these two attitudes. Be back here tomorrow when I share 5 more.
Peace and piece,
PR (aka RJ)
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ok so how do you show in your attitude that being with me is the best possible choice a woman can make. Please do tell ????
It all sounds great in theory, but I struggle in practice. I tried streets, cafes, shopping centres, evenings (quiet pubs where women sit), random approaches in all sorts of situations. Either woman shows indicators of disinterest quite quickly, or has a borefriend/partner (your technique to say that i don’t want a date but just to meetup for an interesting conversation and a laugh didn’t work for me so far). And even if I manage to follow it up to a date (i never use this word to a woman), they all, ALL turned to be flakes.
My friend gets laid a lot, and he often even says in first few mins things like “you’d match my bedding quite well”. When I do small talk, I got a feeling that I’m not making my intentions clear (“intentions” means I don’t want to “just be friends”). When I try seduction questions, women quite often comment that I ask very deep/personal/strange questions.
Women want to be seduced, want to be fucked, want to have a strong attractive man next to them, but when one (me) approaches them, they don’t respond as I’d expect them to respond. I don’t consider “fail” if I don’t get laid and I enjoy all types of interactions. Even an approach and small talk is a success for me, but SS was supposed to be about getting laid.
I realise that when in rapport, things are possible. But how do I get that initial spark? I asked this several times and you accused me of asking for an algorithm/schematic. I do know there’s no magical pill, and I’m not asking for one.
I must admit, I haven’t done much of the meditation excercises, but through approaches I’ve eliminated approach anxiety and although I’m quite confident and relaxed. I also touch them (kino) – it already becomes a second nature. But still nothing. I am willing to walk away if they show no interest. I even said to few women, having seen no interest, “you’re not worth my attention” and walked off with no “goodbye”. It’s not that I’m rude or desperate, and that’s not my point.
Sorry for a bit long post, I just don’t know where to go now. There must be something that I can improve. Honestly, I’m sick and tired with being stuck in limbo. What am I doing wrong? How can I create this initial spark that would let me create rapport? Shall I let her talk about whatever for hours about any random shit to show that I understand their world? I tried few things to capture their imagination and it just didn’t work so far. When I ask questions and seduction questions, they feel interrogated. When I try to warm up their imagination by describing how it FEELS to fly paraglider (I do, so I can describe it quite well), it doesn’t work either.
So, anyway, what can I do to move forward?
@Vitold
I don’t know how you are coming across to these women.
Here is an idea: assuming it is legal where you live to do so, just record the audio portions of your sarges and then send me some mp3 files so I can give it a listen.
I suspect your attitude and vibe is just off. You don’t get that you have to be playful and know how to smile and create a fun vibe.
RJ
these attitudes are so important and have helped me great throughout the last two and half years of speed seduction. Those who know me, i often hear “well your a great looking guy, what was the problem.” ive even heard from women. “your super sexy, but your like my best friend.” MY ATTITUDE at the time, was sooo poor, i just didnt believe them, and i just felt like a pussy..yea a fucking pussy…however, once adopting the attitudes and affirmations like this. im at the point where whenever i go out, at least one woman will make eye contact with me, or even wink or smile….my looks havent changed, im still the same five foot italian two years ago, with the same haircut and same build, but after adopting these attitudes…it is as if i walk the world in a different way…so different that i am still mesmorized by the benefits of these attitudes alone….LET ALONE ALL THE OTHER TOOLS I USE!!!
love always
your loyal SS brother
dibz
@dbZ
You’re only 5 feet? Really? No way….