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    ja_hy1 June 1, 2010, 2:37 pm

    give us more !

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    Diño June 1, 2010, 3:26 pm

    I´ve seen this video in udemy, and truly admire how you structure all your language in order to set commands and suggestions, even when you are explaining things to your students, not only in the use of the i/you shift… the last sentences are also of great importance, as explaining what your intent is. thx for the post…

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    Karl June 1, 2010, 3:31 pm

    I noticed that you were actually doing even more than what you were teaching at the moment. For instance, from 1:47 – 1:49 you gave the command “Feel really, really attracted Doreta”, then you gave a suggestion from 1:59 – 2:06 that said, “when you STOP… and think about what it’s like to have big hands really, really doing the right thing”. I bet after all these years of talking like that, you don’t even realize that you’re doing it unless you consciously think about it. So anyway, yes, I liked it, but thought that you might have wanted to throw in an explanation video right behind it to explain all of the other things you were doing verbally and non-verbally. There was a lot going on there that most people (including myself) probably wouldn’t catch.

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    Redman June 1, 2010, 5:21 pm

    Ross, was there a meaning/implication at 11 seconds with the headscratch and the content of what you said verbally?

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    Debate Man June 1, 2010, 5:56 pm

    lol omg, this chick is cumming in her pants!

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    sorue poscendo June 1, 2010, 6:16 pm

    lol, she’s a live one… can’t do long intricate patterns with her, and seems like a phrase seeker, “lookin for dirty meanings, in what your saying”.. twin brothers is great with her, she looks like she like’s to do all the talking, the best patterns would come from her responses.. i’m understanding non-verbal patterns too, it’s like.. women, have a deep, unconscious need to be, understood… and even if, she’s deceptive, which is completely fine.. her body, and how she’s saying her words, puts the patterns together, kinda like putting together a picture puzzle..

    good post RJ =)

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    SeductionSongs June 1, 2010, 7:23 pm

    Excellent demonstration, Ross! We definitely want more like this, and thanks for spelling out the I/You shift and giving it a name!

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    Fat-Albert June 2, 2010, 4:49 am

    Hey Guys,
    I like these embedded commands /suggestions within sentences, something we need to refresh occassionally.

    And I’m intrigued, the twin brothers routine is still in your arsnal of sarging.

    All the best
    Fat-Albert

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    Luis June 2, 2010, 1:54 pm

    hmm this is interesting cause it does show what you explain a sarge..but because you take advantage of the conference setting you are able to add power to your suggestions by being as repetitive as you want where in a real sarge wouldn’t it look a bit awkward..this is great stuff..just thinking that this girl isn’t putting up resistance to most of it because she knows what it’s all about…or am I wrong?

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    Micheal June 2, 2010, 11:00 pm

    Great, show us more of these sarges in action. It clearly shows us how it’s all done. It’s allot better than learning from books and cds. Don’t you all agree? It’s best to learn by examples.

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    Timo June 29, 2010, 4:54 am

    There is a problem here; This women is allready openly willing to be seduced, or at least try it(If not why would she come to the stage first place). This is not the case in real life, so I guess in real life it is about regognicing the different mental states of the women are. Not that I mean that women has to all the time be in neutral or willing state, I’m just saying it’s easier to seduce a woman that is willing to be seduced rather than a woman that runs around with a battle axe.

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