Dear Speed Seduction® Student,
Everyone has a “type” of some sort.
Some guys prefer women who look or act a certain way; for some it helps if they have many interests in common; some find it sufficient just to screen out the loonies and the crazies.
Does it help to make a list of the qualities you want in a woman when building your “radar” for screening?
A student of mine recently set to do just that…and he was asking me, if he were to set aside the physical qualities, and focus mostly on the “core”
qualities, how careful would he need to choose?
Personally, I wouldn’t want a list too long. And also, here is a question:
What state of mind do you want to be in when you make your list?
If you’ve studied my Magick stuff, a big part of setting goals has to do with making sure you don’t drag your old limiting beliefs and stuck emotions into framing what you are claiming.
(Oooh: I like that: “Framing what you are claiming”).
So, my first challenge:
1) What frame of mind do you want to be in when you are doing this?
2) What practices can you do to make sure you are in an optimum frame of mind?
Next, I have found that it helps me to do two things:
1) Use alliteration when naming the qualities. For example: “Daring, Depth, Dimension” as a 3-cluster of qualities that have to be there.
2) I like using groups of three or four, alliteration or not. As in:
- Feet on the ground
- Head screwed on straight
- Heart wide-open to me
- Pussy dripping wet, in all ways eager to please me
Use this as a basis for building and calibrating your radar and you’ll find your focus shifting toward more of the women you truly want to be with.
Peace and piece,
RJ
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Two of my acronyms:
AAA:
Accept whatever emotion is bothering you
Analyze logically from a higher place
take Action to move in the desired direction
FART (lol):
don’t Fight battles against mental images
Accept unpleasant emotions
Resignation in the face of “do I deserve this?” type questions
no Trash-thinking about others
The first one I use a general clearing algorithm, the second one is more to stay positive and not project negativity towards other.
;” some find it sufficient just to screen out the loonies and the crazies”
Mark Cunningham used to have a product where he would screen women using hand writing anaylsis. The traits he would look for out were essentially a list of the characteristics of a a psychopath such as pathological lying, rage etc. Since psychopaths have an emotional vacuum (other than anger and internal rage)and can’t connect with others, do you think using the nlp pattens that deal with connection, age regresion and other emotional attributes would screen out women who don’t have a reaction (trancing., emotional or otherwise)? I psychopaths learn to fake these things, but I would doubt they would during a pattern since they wouldn’t have an emotional reaction to something they are incapable of, and probably wouldn’t know they are being “patterned”
Reminds me of that scene in “Blade Runner” when “real people” are screening for replicants in “Blade Runner” with an empathy test and the one replicant pulls out a gun and shoots the tester after he asks him about “his mother”. “I’ll tell you something about my mother””
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1) I’d like to be in a frame of mind that allows me to have anough clarity to see what I truly want. And sometimes that also includes knowing what you absolutely do not want. Yesterday an ex-gf of mine who I’ve known for the last 9 years stopped treating me the priority and respect I want from any woman I’m dealing with. So I asked her about it with the belief, “Speaking my truth….”, which made me vulnerable. She wasn’t willing to make any amends even after me telling her very clearly that the way she was treating me was not what I wanted to see from her. So I just walked away from her. I feel hurt but not so much as to cause me suffering because I know I did not supplicate. Now my frame of mind is calm and clear and I know that no matter how hot looking a woman may be but if she doesn’t treat with me priority and respect there is no way I’ll deal with her. And then there is another woman I’d dealt with the same vibe (VULNERABLE), as I called her on her bullshit and as a result of that I found that she started treating me with even more priority and respect and said that because I shared the way I felt with her she loved me even more than before and practially said this, “I’m on my knees begging you to please forgive me and not throw me away like this.”
2) Like you say Ross, a meditataion practice is THE best method for ensuring that you’re in an optimum frame of mind. Just letting the feelings flow without clogging them up with reaction eventually brings you to a point where the ripples of the mind and feelings cease to be and you feel a feeling of relief and see with clarity. And when you add compassion to this clarity you have true peace of mind. And from this place when u truly belive that you are the best choice any woman could make, and BE that guy, it really helps.
All in all I’d say that from all experiences so far, both good and bad I’ve come to realize the core values that I want in my woman (apart from being attractive and sexually eager to please me) would be: RESPECT AND PRIORITY, LOVES TO COOK, LOVES A HOME, FAIRLY INTELLIGENT and OPEN HEARTED. Not a very long list but very important to me.
Cute, sweet, and good to eat
Light on her feet and ready to meet
Whoa, this is REALLY big chunk stuff that Ross is sharing here!
Don’t be misled by the fact that it’s a single entry in a Free Blog, this is a powerful concept Ross is giving you here, and one that virtually no other experts in relationship/dating (or any field of personal transformation, for that matter) ever notice or pay attention to…
…and that is paying attention to what State of Mind you are in when you create a list of what you most desire–in a woman, in your health, in your life, etc.
We all have various Parts of us who take turns being us, and if it happens that our “Inner Geek” is “out” when we make our short list of desirable attributes in a woman, then we’re gonna make a list looking for basically a Female Geek.
However, what if another part of us is Sporty and Adventurous and THAT is the type of woman you’d like to attract? Well, Ross is suggesting that it would be an excellent strategy to let your “Inner Adventurer” out to to play and only THEN create your list.
If there are other Parts of you that are also important, then Ross would probably suggest that you first access the primary part (Inner Lover, Inner Artist, etc.) and then come back to the list later when your Spiritual side is out or whatever else is important to you.
It just makes sense, right?!
The surprising thing is that Ross (and just a very few others) can openly teach–and even GIVE AWAY–this highly valuable training, and yet his competitors never catch on, never discover these principals themselves and so, of course, NEVER in their entire careers teach them, lulz!
@John They are still copying what I did back in 1993 and still getting it wrong. I really can innovate faster than they can copy, still it rankles that they won’t be honorable enough to give credit where it is due. Oh well, back to my Skunkworks for more deviltry.
what process do you use for innovation?