Dear Speed Seduction® Master-In-Training,
Fans of the long-running TV show, M*A*S*H, will remember the exciting girl-getting exploits of camp ladies’ man, Corporal Walter Eugene “Radar” O’Reilly.
Yes. Really. Radar.
The short, nearsighted, naive, teddy-bear-hugging, comic-book-reading, not-all-that-handsome farmboy from Ottumwa, Iowa.
Radar.
You think I’m kidding? You think I’ve lost it? Let’s go through the exhibits, and I’ll briefly recap what happened and share my feedback where I can.
(NOTE: All images are screen captures and are copyright to Twentieth Century Fox. They are presented here as illustrations for a research project only. I strongly urge you to support the actors by purchasing the DVDs, all of which are available for sale on leading retailers like Amazon.)
Here we see Radar, who has been studying up on Bach and Tolstoy to impress a highly cultured new nurse. While he utilized his girl-getting game as an opportunity to expand his overall horizons, he was doing it to impress the girl – not good. In the end, he got so bored with the seduction he fell asleep during dinner. (There is no shortage of women, nor are there a shortage of women for YOU. Don’t “settle.”)
There’s an unexploded bomb in the compound, and Radar encounters a bombshell of a nurse who has other forms of “explosion” on her mind. He tries to wink at her, and for the effort, she takes him off to the supply tent. A fine example of frame control, resetting the mood, and redirecting her energies in a Sargy sort of way. Well played.
Radar was shy around this nurse who loved poetry. He came over to her tent one night to share a book of poems, and she pounced on him like a tigress in heat. Turns out she thought his shyness around her was him being a “heartbreaker” and “playing hard-to-get.” Question: what women do you know might need just a nudge to pounce on YOU?
There are several scenes where this particular nurse comes onto Radar. Sometimes he knows what to do and they dance or make out…sometimes he blows it. I would ask, what would he need to get his game “on tap” so he can draw from it at-will?
Not his finest hour. This Korean woman claimed (falsely) that Radar fathered her baby. Sick of being teased by the likes of Hawkeye, Trapper, and Frank, Radar, in turn, falsely claims responsibility. (Good thing Hawkeye had the blood test results in-hand to bail Radar out!)
But, two minutes later, the same giggly, flirty nurse from two shots up encounters Radar by chance. Very excited to see him, she asks him out and he accepts. Hawkeye recommends Radar wear the paratrooper scarf that seems to drive women wild. Radar thinks about it. (Awareness of your “style” that drives women crazy for you – and into your bed – is a critical factor.)
This nurse is fed up with Radar dropping off the mail and shuttering out the door. Her exact words: “When are you going to make a REAL delivery?” He resists because she outranks him. (However, he soon gets accidentally promoted. She then REJECTS him because she prefers the “underdog”)….
….However, once the mistake is corrected and he’s restored to Corporal, Radar drops off that package she was asking about earlier. (Lesson: it’s who you ARE that is more likely to attract women NOW, than who you WISH you were.)
Radar spent an entire episode being shy, trying to figure out how to get this new nurse to notice him and using half-assed pick-up lines to attempt conversation. Turns out, the whole time her eyes were wide open to what he offered. All he had to to was tell her he was interested! Here you see him at the officers’ club with the “prettiest girl in camp.” SCORE!
Radar’s on his way back to the 4-0-Double-7 when he encounters this sizzling hot farmgirl who grew up not too far from him. If this is an indicator, I bet when he got discharged, his homecoming was pretty sweet. (Gee, how many double entendres are in THAT sentence?)
Here’s the thing. If Radar can do it, so can you. Over and out.
Peace and piece,
RJ
P.S. When Radar needed mentoring and guidance on how to work it with the ladies, who did he turn to? Hawkeye, whose own girl-getting game was par excellence. We learn from those who have succeeded before us.
P.S. Would you like 25 years’ of cutting-edge, it-doesn’t-get-any-better-than-that teaching on your side and in your corner? Click here to see what would have gotten Radar TWICE the women, had it been invented back in 1951.
Damn yer good….
you are freaking relentless… How am I supposed to get any work done with these awesome e-mails… in…coming…… or is it….in-cumming?
isn’t that what Radar got called ‘radar” for?
keep it up boss.
Mark
Ironically enough, who do you think moved into my condo building?
Loretta Swit, aka “Hotlips Houlihan” from the very same show, MASH.
(Seems Loretta went into foreclosure on her home, which is located right across the street. Proof that the economic downturn is hurting everyone.)
RJ
Ross, is there a email adress where I can sent you a private mail, because there is a woman who seems to be the most difficult seduction I have ever encountered. It’s driving me wild and I would like to discuss this with you? greatings from a big fan from Amsterdam
Great stuff as usual. If you just be yourself and use what Ross teaches you’ll be meeting more women who might actually be interested in you.
Don’t ignore the Plain Janes either – sometimes they have hot friends.
fantastic Ross!!! I even added one of the commentary lines to my list of affirmations! (There is no shortage of women, nor are there a shortage of women for YOU. Don’t “settle.”) i added you know to the beginning though. being a longtime student of yours I thank you for your continued great works & passion for converting A.F.C’S to self aware sarging machines. of course with mindfulness & equanimity!!
Excellent and insightful as always; thank you for sharing this with the rest of the class…