Dear Speed Seduction(R) Students,
As you may know, I’ve chosen to help two seduction “basket cases” who have been really stuck with women.
Bob, who is in his early thirties, has not been with a woman in 5 years. Jesse, who is in his late 40’s, has not had sex in 20 years.
I’ve decided to work with both of them for free, in exchange for keeping this log of their progress.
This video is a recording of my private thoughts the day before my first private session with Bob.
In it, I discuss getting through the concept of Bob and Jesse creating “spaciousness” in their consciousness from which they can make new and better choices….and watch old patterns emerge without getting sucked back into them.
Please give me your comments below.
Peace and piece,
RJ
P.S. You can blast past stuck points and leap into the seduction fast lane with my Nail Your Inner Game Program.
Is the space in conciousness from the meditation a perceptual distancing from the patterns or a space in the projection that gives room to re design patterns?
Rescuing The Basket Cases, Ross Jeffries Private Video Log…
Creating spaciousness in your consciousness allows you to watch your old patterns from a distance without being drawn back into them. First choice is to push down against the old pattern; second choice is to repeat the pattern. Ross Jeffries reveals …
Rescuing The Basket Cases: Ross Jeffries’ Private Video Log…
Creating “spaciousness” in your consciousness allows you to watch your old patterns from a distance without being drawn back into them. First choice: push down against the old pattern; second choice: repeat the pattern. Ross Jeffries shares a thir…
{Smiles} You’re teaching enlighenment. Others are teaching activity. It’s different.
This is really cool and also very cool of you to do, Ross.
I’m in a similar situtaion as this fellow, in that I’m as confused as all hell.
And my negative emotional repsonses are tearing me apart and keeping me down.
I have intermitant success with women, but it’s all very confusing, and this demoralizes me. In the past 3 monts I’ve had four different situations in which anyone in their right mind would be convinced I was ‘in’, and in each one, something fell apart, but when I go over the situation i nmy mind and with my friends, it’s tough to rerally tell what the issue was, and when I can figure out what went wrong, I feel overwhelmed, because sometimes it’s such a tiny little thing that one would think wouldn’t matter. I’ve had very beatufull women all over me, but then I’ll say or do that one thing (which changes every time) that will fuck it up for me… which will in turn leave me horribly depressed and feeling hopeless…
Plus, I can’t seem to hold onto the proper ‘vibe’, sometimes I’m literally the most charming guy in the room, and I’ve actually walked into parties before and been told later that the hotest group of girls who saw me walking in said to each other ‘WHO is THAT’ in a very good way…
But even more often, I’m unsure of myself, edgy… depressed… etc… when it comes to women… and it seriously ‘infects’ EVERY other aspect of my life: work, friends, health, spirituality, etc…
I’ve tried a bunch of other systems, and while I’m much better off then I was (3 years ago, I litterally couldn’t get laid in a whorehouse!!!) I am still stuck… and with the rare fluke (one who was actually a SI swimsuit cover model!), I can’t seem to progress in terms of the quality of women I am able to sleep with…
Anyways, I think yuo are doing a great thing here! You are a benevolent Prophet of Poon Tang, and while there are other Phrophets out there, they seem to be more interested in being Prophets of Profit then they are in genuinly putting out good info and really helping people. One example: I signed up for a school run by a VERY high profile PUA, was assigned a coach etc… and the whole thing ended up being a cult of personality run by absentee coaches, with the leader nowhere to be seen except for the weekly empty “Hi Gang” email
I ordered NYIG and I’m waiting for my schedule to free up a bit next month (my work situation is very topsy-turvy right now)and then I’m begining it.
Ok, I’ve raved enough!
Don Juan (Byron) meets Don Juan (Castaneda) – perhaps you’d like to expand on that.
I’m very interested in this experiment!!!
Hello Ross,
I expect that you will greatly help these guys and prove the unlimited power of SS.
Btw, I was practicing this spaciousness concept myself- I was watching some negative emotional states coming up, then stayed as present as possible, then they dissolved.
I noticed that when I witness a negative emotional pattern coming up (after for example something with a woman did not work out as I wanted) it is like something comes up on me and at the same time kind of sucks me in a tunnel and when I get in this tunnel then all emotions and thoughts are similar to this negative pattern.
What I do is first to notice the negative emotion coming up, then I stay as present as possible watch the tunnel feel its gravitation but do not let myself get sucked in, then the gravitation subsides.
I got this practice from Ekhart Tolle- this guy is exceptional. He presents you the most unpresentable stuff in the least volume of pages. He is a spiritual teacher btw :).
Ross, maybe it would be a good idea if you post here some videos with the two men you are working with too?
Regards, and Respect,
Ivo
Yes, these mind drills work, for me too. They also connect me with other soul teachers, and I am not trying to imply anything non-mechanistic, but the word, soul feels comfortable, in this context.
I started out, many years ago, dumb as a stump. Thanks for the clear expositions.