Romantic Attention Deficit Disorder (RADD) And The Business Card Trick

Dear Seeker of Success,

A member of the Speed Seduction® Elite Mastermind Program called me during Ask-Me-Anything office hours, with a challenge.

I’ll paraphrase here:

I’ve been practicing for a long time. I’m pretty successful in meeting women, making a connection and getting rapport and the results I want.

One of the challenges I find is if I meet a woman and get a good connection right away, the rapport is good but we have to go our separate ways. If I don’t close it fairly quickly, within a couple of days or a week, it usually dies out. It’s all done.

A lot of times I just say, “The heck with it.” I go meet someone new and fresh as opposed to following it up. If I follow it up, I feel as though I may fall back into supplicating or it’s not the same. I feel like I’m missing a piece.

I totally understand.

We’re living in the “attention” age. Many people have ADD, and even more people have RADD.

That’s Romantic Attention Deficit Disorder.

Have you ever been in a Las Vegas casino with the over-stimulation from the lights and sounds? It’s deliberate over-stimulation.

In any modern western metropolis, things are so over-stimulating. How long can something hold a person’s interest?

If You Don’t Get Into Contact Within
48 To 72 Hours After Meeting Her,
You Can Pretty Much Kiss Her Goodbye

(But not always.)

Here’s a technique I’ve used.

I’d talk to a girl. At some point, usually when I had to go, I’d hand her my business card. I’d say,

“At some point in the coming week, you’ll find yourself thinking about this conversation. You’ll think, ‘I want to talk to that guy again.’ You’ll reach for my number right here on this card.”

Fifty percent of the women I did that with would call me back within 72 hours. Of these, most actually called within 24 hours.

They said, “You programmed me to call you, didn’t you?” I said, “Yes. That was fun, wasn’t it?”

The other 50% never called me back.

Oh well.

If I use this with 6 women and 3 call me back in 24-72 hours, how does that compare to your callback rate, up until now?

Peace,

RJ

P.S. Inside Rapid and Total Success With Women, I’ll show you how to use very suggestive patterns of words that are custom designed and proven over 21+ years of research (and feedback from literally thousands of students worldwide) to go straight to her right brain so they:

1. Capture her imagination
2. Lead her to experience these deep emotional states
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