Dear Seeker of Success,
I want to tell you about a solid gold walk-up I did.
Actually it was a walk-through. Literally.
I was in the shopping center near my home in Marina del Rey. There were four women in their mid-20s in front of me.
I was trying to get by them so I had to say, “Excuse me.” I sort of pushed through them. I said, “Pardon me, supermodels, but I have to get through.”
They all laughed. I turned around and looked at them. I picked out the best-looking one.
To her I said, “Look at you. You are really incredibly stylish. I don’t mean to embarrass you or put you on the spot in front of your friends, but you really just look absolutely fantastic today.”
Then I surprised her.
I Said, “You Don’t Have A Really
Cute Brother, Do You?”
Mind you, I didn’t say this in any kind of effeminate voice. I just said it in my normal voice. She laughed and said, “He’s pretty cute.”
I slid my arm around her, pulled her to me, and said, “Really? Is he available?” She said, “I don’t really think so.”
Then I said, “Look at you. You really are just absolutely gorgeous. Your body is perfect. The way you dress really accentuates how nice your body looks.”
Then I said to her, “Is your brother cuter than your boyfriend?” She said, “I don’t have a boyfriend.”
Then I pulled her a little closer and said, “Well, I’m not really gay,” and she burst out laughing.
All of her friends laughed.
Next, I Switched It…Again.
Then I said, “I know this is a little outrageous and over the top, but when I saw you I thought, ‘You better do or say something really different because she’s so pretty she probably gets hit on 100 times a week.’ So I hope you don’t mind I was so over the top. My name is Ross.”
She said, “Wow! You’re really amazing.” All her friends were laughing. She went on, “Actually, no one talks to me. We were just talking about how guys here are so chicken shit or clueless.”
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I said, “I’m in a hurry, and obviously you’re here with your friends and in a hurry, too. I know we don’t know each very well, but if you’re not with someone who’s with you in a way you truly want them to be, why don’t we hook up for a cup of coffee and see how much more we could really enjoy?”
Then I nodded my head when I gave that suggestion that we could really enjoy.
Peace,
RJ
P.S. My 25+ years of testing, research, and feedback from literally thousands of students have spawned simple but proven techniques designed to by-pass a woman’s left-brain critical “check list” through which she normally screens guys.
Supermodel? Make that Super-hot-for-you.
