Dear Speed Seduction® Student,
One of the top members of our VIP Access Coaching Program had an issue with language patterns.
The challenge: using the patterns in a way that seems natural, without raising eyebrows or sounding like a poorly-rehearsed pickup line.
Things came to a head (ha ha ha) when a woman stopped him and said “What are you trying to do?”, looking at him strangely and saying it seemed like he’s blatantly trying to get her to like him.
Again: this is why I haven’t created a downloadable product called “Here’s 50 Tried-And-True Language Patterns You Can Memorize And Use Now”.
This is why I require students to master Rapid and Total Success With Women or attend a seminar before I’ll give them access to purchase the “Old School Secret Stash” which includes the language patterns skills-builder.
How To Oil The Rusty Robot And Not
Sound Ridiculously Rehearsed
First, foremost, uppermost, and important-most, remember this: as important (or more important) than the patterns themselves, are HOW they’re delivered, and the UNDERLYING SEDUCTION PRINCIPLES that make them work.
To use language patterns effectively, you need to make them sound like they’re not rehearsed, and incorporate some of the feeling that would go with it.
If I was doing the Discovery Channel pattern, I would do it like this (pay close attention):
“I was watching this program on TV, and they were talking about designing rides for amusement parks and attractions like Disneyland. They were talking about when you stop….and think about what makes for the ideal attraction, what has to go in there?
“It’s really an interesting program. I don’t know if you watch the Discovery Channel, but the guy said there are three elements. First of all…the ride has to be really, really exciting…it has to get….your body, your blood pumping…like…do you know that first…long…kiss?”
You need to put in pauses, like the ellipses I add above (which is why I said “pay close attention”).
And, as I’m saying all this, I’m visualizing it in my own mind.
Also, you need to be okay if she interrupts.
HER: Do you mean like that kind of roller coaster?
YOUR RESPONSE: Sure, like that one. Maybe you can remember how that feels as I’m describing it.
See how that works?
Again: The 2 Key Elements To Sounding Natural
With Seduction Language Patterns To
Get Her Seducing Herself Into Your Bed
One, is to make it sound like it’s not rehearsed by pausing and seeming like you’re stretching for the words.
Two, is to do what you can to be open to her feedback and let her participate.
This, by the way, is the first step toward making her feel it was HER idea – in other words, getting her to seduce herself into your bed
And that sure beats a poke in the eye.
Peace and piece,
RJ
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That girl’s attitude was mean because she presupposed that the student wasn’t worthy and powerful enough to get her.
Ross go to Venice, they did a city over the mud… now they blame tides and found the solution: “Mose” project… I call this attitude working around (while Moses went straight on).
Women’s mood is like Venice mud.
Sometimes they possess a pretty body, and the best piece like in Venice is that when you leave them you don’t need to flush the toilet.
So true! One other thing that I do — if it’s something personal (like the end of the Twin Bros where I’m giving my three qualities in a woman — the last should sound personal and heartfelt), I’ll pause and look down. When people look down they’re usually channeling something emotional and we pick up on it subconsciously. The other day, after going out with this chick, she told me she thinks I’m writing a book about online dating and that I have this “science” down that I’m using on all of my dates, LOL! I simply told her she better make sure her character is represented well then 😉 Seriously, sometimes if a woman questions you it’s because no one has opened their world like that before and you really penetrated deep. (Ambiguities added purposely)
“Seriously, sometimes if a woman questions you it’s because no one has opened their world like that before and you really penetrated deep.”
You are right…
There is also quotes patterns and trance hijacking as delivery vehicles