Dear Speed Seduction(R) Student,
God help me, but I actually enjoy watching Hannah Montana
Before this seems to descend into perversion and twisted fantasy, let me just say there are some profound lessons in female psychology that explain the crazy popularity of this show and of Miley Cyrus(who plays “Hannah”). In case you didn’t know it, the Disney Channel show has 2/3 of every girl between 6 and 14 watching, and Cyrus’ 54 city concert tour sold out in minutes, with desperate parents now paying scalpers thousands of dollars for seats
Listen: the show is about Miley Stewart, who by day is a nerdy, average high school girl, but by night is “Hannah Montana”, pop-star singing sensation. She hides her secret life of popularity, power, adulation, high-fashion etc from her friends at school, because she just wants to be treated like a “normal” girl.
Here is the thing: the show taps into the powerful female fantasy of having a secret life; of appearing to conform to the normal “rules” and ways of living, but in secret, having fantasy, adventure, and all the things girls that age crave.
As women age, the content of those fantasies may change, but the overall fantasy of having a “double life” and the notion of hiding secrets from friends is HUGE. So do you think a girl who has a boyfriend who makes her appear normal to her friends-like a “Miley”-might be open to a lover who makes her feel like she is hiding a powerful secret life as “Hannah”?
I surely do. As I teach in the Home Study Course capturing and leading a woman’s imagination and knowing how to trigger her fantasies is crucial!
Women may grow up. But the mechanisms are always there.
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Nice example of what capturing and leading imagination means.
aah, that’s hillarious.
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