Dear Seeker of Success,
Many smart guys, including some who are fabulously successful in their careers and what they do in life overall, would give just about anything to interrupt and overcome the response of being fearful or shy or hesitant around women.
I want to start you on the process of doing a lot more than overcoming being “shy”.
I want to start you on the process of programming your subconscious mind for outrageous confidence, power and charm!
True confession: this is a subject about which I actually have some trouble writing, simply because I’ve evolved and created so many techniques that have helped so many thousands of guys, it’s hard for me to know where to begin!
Does it seem like I’m bragging?
Well, as they say in Missouri, it ain’t bragging if…
…You Really Can Do What You Say You Can!
There is a fundamental principle of the human mind I want you to really understand and incorporate.
It explains why some people really can change their lives while other just stay hoping, wishing and stuck.
It is a rule about how the human brain and mind work that controls a great deal of what we can do.
And here it is:
While Your Brain May Be Attracted
To Doing Something Different, Usually
Brains Only DO What Is Familiar
Basically what I am saying here is, people tend to do what they are used to.
People tend to think like they are used to thinking and feel like they are used to feeling.
Yes, they may WANT to, on some level, change.
But the reality is, given a situation in the real world, if you are used to acting, feeling and thinking in a certain way, just vaguely wishing you could be different ISN’T GOING TO CHANGE ANYTHING AT ALL.
The key to any kind of real change, then, is mental rehearsal.
You must learn to program in the way you like to feel, act, think, believe and respond and do so with sufficient repetition that the new feelings, actions, thoughts and beliefs are perceived by your brain as being more powerful, more vivid, more real and more familiar…
…Than The Way You Used To Be!
I will say this again, because it is so important.
It is NOT enough to realize you want to change.
It is not enough to even THINK about changing.
If you want a change, especially a change that is radically different, you must…
…Vividly Mentally Rehearse It!
Now, I am not the first person to talk about mental rehearsal or it’s dirty little new age cousin, “guided visualization”.
The problem with most of these methods, as presented is,
They Simply Do Not Work!
That’s not because the people who teach or write about them don’t care.
It’s simply because they are either leaving out vital ingredients to “make the recipe work” or because they are adding in stupid stuff that just doesn’t belong.
When you make mental rehearsal work for you, in a matter of a few short weeks you can totally reprogram the deepest levels of your mind for the kind of beliefs, attitudes, awareness, behaviors and timing to bring you outrageously magnetic confidence and power with women.
And that sure beats a poke in the eye!
Peace,
RJ
P.S. Take any and all confusion, frustration, and stuckness you’ve ever experienced with women – and immediately convert it to pure, immediately usable learning, so you could bounce right back, and automatically do things right the next time.
