Dear Speed Seduction® Students And Fans,
Do you believe…I mean REALLY believe…that when you offer your gifts to the world and in particular to the women you desire, it IS a
gift?
Do you believe that women want these feelings and that you can have many of them responding to you in a great way?
Because if you do, why would you bother with a woman who is clearly deeply uncomfortable with herself, with men and with sex?
I bring this up because two days ago I got an e-mail from a student who shared a report on a “Five Minute Sarge” with a (seemingly) EXTREMELY INTERESTED woman, that abruptly crashed and burned when a) she said she had to first check on her child’s babysitter’s schedule and she wouldn’t know her schedule till tomorrow, and b) when my student then did Plan B and said he’d call her the next day once she had the schedule, the woman said, “uhhh….can I call you instead?”
Bottom line: she liked the attention that comes from SEEMING open and adventurous, with all her flirting and use of words like “babe” and “love” with guys who hit on her, but when it came time to put the game behind her name, she clammed up faster than a statue with lockjaw.
If these things happen to you, I ask now: why are you doing “emotional dentistry” trying to pull her impacted erotic wisdom teeth?
It is not, you see, that you only attract the crazy ones, the flaky ones, the cock-teases. More likely you are only approaching/talking to women who SEEM very open to be in some way approached, rather than women who are desirable to you AFTER you’ve spoken to them and screened them.
Let me put that another way: screwy women (of all types) are often very desperate for male attention, and so, in that respect, they SEEM friendly and open to talking. So guys who have issues with approaching will be drawn to these girls, who SEEM friendly.
When in reality, these ladies are not truly friendly at all. Rather:
- They have very bad boundaries.
- They desperately need rescue/attention/validation
Another metaphor; a predator in the wild will usually seek out the weak/sick prey animals rather than tackling the healthy ones.
What if you try this instead:
- Work on approaching/talking to women who may not be giving off “talk to me” signals. Create the approachability in them by how you approach, rather than waiting for them to look approachable.
- Determine, once you do get talking, to screen out ANY woman who gives off any kind of signal or communication that she is not comfortable with sex, sexuality, or that she is angry, emotionally closed, etc.
Watch your girl-getting game skyrocket with your ability to approach and seduce any woman, anytime, anywhere thus turbo-charged.
Peace and piece,
RJ
P.S. Approaching more women who may seem cold, aloof, not necessarily interested, not just waiting for you to come up and lay the mack down – that’s a colder environment than when she says “babe” and “love” and makes goo-goo eyes, right? No, it’s different when you have Speed Seduction® 3.0. Click here to heat things up starting now!
haha… Usual great stuff from RJ. Reminds me of one particular woman I knew. Beautiful. Sexy. A tease. But very, very screwed up.
To have standards.. beautiful 🙂
“2.They desperately need rescue/attention/validation”
Always screen for these types, crate nothing but hassle
Great insight Ross and well put.
How funny would it be if in a couple of days you send us a blog giving us hints how to bed such women anyway :DDD
i’m tunisian , muslim and amazed by your seduction tracks , but my comment will be about ss in general :well everytime i receive an email from you ,i become surer that i was using ss my whole life by defaulT.
The problem is that im getting older (37) and feeling no more good about changing women over and over ,i think it’s better to choose ONE to marry , but i have to overcome my addiction to women first ;i really need your advice
@Dali My advice? Get a Jewish woman. You’ll never want another one again!
RJ…Zionist to the core!
This advice is really good!
Now I know why I was attracting only the crazy ones, the flaky ones, the cock-teases.
Thank you RJ!
hi Ross , so you’re advising me in order to stop wanting other new women to get a Jewish woman … yes but , what if it’s gonna start a new addiction which is “Jewish women” won’t that be a waste of other vicious cycle couple of years ? anyway i think that your advice means ‘no solution” maybe because I’m asking you the opposite of what you want to give me ,or because if you’d know a way to make stop that obsessive love to women you’d use it yourself