Dear Speed Seduction® Student,
Becoming a Speed Seduction® master, like so much else in life, takes practice. When it comes to approaching women, for example, no matter how much you enjoy the results from what I teach in my Gold Walk-Up DVD, the clearest path to mastery is always going to be keeping yourself in the game, approaching many women, and using the strategies to get women hot, bothered and ready.
However, you also have to keep an important point in mind: sometimes, the closer you get to the skills you need for massive success with smoking-hot women, the more frustration you might encounter, Because suddenly you are in the game, in situations you only dreamed of before.
Case in point: a student recently told me this story:
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Ross,
I was in Starbucks. I saw a hot woman. I started observing her. I thought, “What can I know about this person that I can use?” She was reading a book. I had your notes in my hand. I had an opening with her saying, “I’m writing some stuff and need to know the female perspective on this.” Then I went with the Eros Stone Necklace pattern.
I did exactly what you teach, Ross, and it worked in less than an hour! I had her come to the beach with me. Things got hotter from there. I thought I had done everything right, so I went for the close. I told her, “We need to take some steps to enjoy this somewhere else or continue it in the future.” She said,
“Oh my god, this is too much! I can’t see you further.”
I thought I had her! I wonder what went wrong?
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Now, as far as I can tell, this guy did everything right. Nothing went wrong at all with any of his skills or insights.
All that went “wrong” was that this woman somehow had some kind of problem with getting intimate.
Maybe she had a jealous boyfriend.
Maybe she’s super-religious and doesn’t feel right about sex.
Maybe she’s got something crawling in her cootchie that defies medical science’s attempt to stamp it out.
My simple advice to this guy (and you, if you find yourself in this kind of situation) is this: first and foremost, make a list of everything you did right.
Focus on that. Realize how far you’ve come with your skills. Imagine continuing to practice and getting great results in the future.
Remember: Total victory and success with women that you’ve always wanted could be one simple skill set away.
Everything you need for total success from start to finish is right here.
Peace and piece,
RJ
P.S. Remember, when you’re out there practicing Speed Seduction® principles and meeting women, you’re mastering the teaching. I’m proud of you. And I’m there for you.
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Maybe he screwed up the timing? Or perhaps he didn’t pay attention to intuition. There is a certain kind of energy in the air and when you feel that, you “know” that the woman wants to be in your arms. I’ve seen that when you’re relaxed letting things flow naturally and feeling her energy it is distinct. The feeling is like a lull before the storm. You are the panther and she is the deer (a willing and waiting one). I just can’t explain it in words very well but a woman’s energy is as clear as a traffic signal. I think the key is enjoying. Enjoying your confidence and sexual energy and hers as well and letting them merge effortlessly and gracefully…
PS I do not have a solid background in SS but I practice the attitudes and beliefs, so apart from affirmations I just do things intuitively as you suggest Ross in Part 1 of Unst Conf. Don’t force your behaviour to change, you’ll start doing the right thing automatically.